07-26-2024, 04:31 PM
Maybe she's happier earning a wage in the bar, hanging with her friends and giving her family money - which is why she worked in the first place.
In my case - this girls family paid for her to go to college so she could get a 'good job' (to them).... Then I appear on the scene and wine and dine her. Now that money for education and 2yr of work is sort of wasted. She's my GF, i pay her food and everything.. I don't know if her family ever hoped that she might send money to them from her job or not.. But now they are assured nothing..
She's not a hooker, but she is a potential bread winner for family. Important for folks that don't have a lot - I would guess.
No - i'm not going to let her work a shit job. Like I said - I travel 4 months a year - I'm not going to think about her scrubbing floors while I'm partying in Ibiza - that's just the goofiest advice i've ever heard in my life. Yeah - waiting for her to have 2 weeks off a year to travel is also not my style.
In my case - this girls family paid for her to go to college so she could get a 'good job' (to them).... Then I appear on the scene and wine and dine her. Now that money for education and 2yr of work is sort of wasted. She's my GF, i pay her food and everything.. I don't know if her family ever hoped that she might send money to them from her job or not.. But now they are assured nothing..
She's not a hooker, but she is a potential bread winner for family. Important for folks that don't have a lot - I would guess.
No - i'm not going to let her work a shit job. Like I said - I travel 4 months a year - I'm not going to think about her scrubbing floors while I'm partying in Ibiza - that's just the goofiest advice i've ever heard in my life. Yeah - waiting for her to have 2 weeks off a year to travel is also not my style.