07-26-2024, 04:30 PM
If I am in your position, I would 100% encourage her to get a decent job and earn a salary. That teaches her to save money. You giving her money and putting some of it in the bank in no way teaches her how to save money. If that is the case, every time she wants more money or wants that new bag, she will just dip into her savings account or ask you for more. If she was earning her own money, things would be different and you would understand that money doesnt just appear out of no where. Of course, you earning more than her could pay for the meals, rent, etc.
Also have you asked her what she wants? Does she want a job? Or does she just want to live off your money?
I agree with Diabolic in regards to that an allowance is for kids. It is not for a girlfriend or a wife. Why you want need to give her a monthly allowance is bizarre. She is not working for you, you are not sponsoring her. You and her are in a relationship and I would think a monthly allowance is uncessary. And what happens when she runs out of that allowance for the month? You just give her somemore?
Also, imagine if she is stuck in her condo 8 to 10 hours a day while you are out at work. After a couple of months she gets bored, she opens a Thaifriendly account and starts talking to all these guys who hope to fuck her. Soon enough you come home to your bedroom with her and another man in your bed. Might be a bit of an exaggeration but you get the point.
I also get that you would like to go on holiday but her having a job would make things more difficult. But you do realize that other farang-thai couples still do go on holiday despite both of them working right? Relationships are about sacrifices. Are you willing to sacrifice time from your holiday in order for her to work? Or ask her to find a freelance job, or a part-time job. Something that doesnt have such big of a commitment.
Also have you asked her what she wants? Does she want a job? Or does she just want to live off your money?
I agree with Diabolic in regards to that an allowance is for kids. It is not for a girlfriend or a wife. Why you want need to give her a monthly allowance is bizarre. She is not working for you, you are not sponsoring her. You and her are in a relationship and I would think a monthly allowance is uncessary. And what happens when she runs out of that allowance for the month? You just give her somemore?
Also, imagine if she is stuck in her condo 8 to 10 hours a day while you are out at work. After a couple of months she gets bored, she opens a Thaifriendly account and starts talking to all these guys who hope to fuck her. Soon enough you come home to your bedroom with her and another man in your bed. Might be a bit of an exaggeration but you get the point.
I also get that you would like to go on holiday but her having a job would make things more difficult. But you do realize that other farang-thai couples still do go on holiday despite both of them working right? Relationships are about sacrifices. Are you willing to sacrifice time from your holiday in order for her to work? Or ask her to find a freelance job, or a part-time job. Something that doesnt have such big of a commitment.