07-26-2024, 04:21 PM
I agree that in sort of an unexpected way mongering improves your confidence. You met a hottie, talked her up a bit, took her back, banged her just the way you like and had a great time. Those memories can serve you well in more conventional dating. I never doubt that when I hook up with a girl I'll perform.
I disagree about internet dating being stupid. Sure, the top 1% of women probably aren't sitting around waiting for someone to click on their profile, but then again most of us here aren't targeting the top 1%. I met my GF on Tinder and she's one of the best women I've ever met. But yes, do supplement it with meeting women in 'real life'. You mention meetups. I've had good luck there as well. Doing something you like in the company of both men and women keeps you socially engaged. I met a potential shag there, but more importantly had a lot of fun and keep my social calendar full. Eventually the odds will get you a win.
Did you try BeeTalk in Thailand? It has a proximity feature which works pretty well. I also used Tinder there. Only the duration of your stay limits your opportunity.
I disagree about internet dating being stupid. Sure, the top 1% of women probably aren't sitting around waiting for someone to click on their profile, but then again most of us here aren't targeting the top 1%. I met my GF on Tinder and she's one of the best women I've ever met. But yes, do supplement it with meeting women in 'real life'. You mention meetups. I've had good luck there as well. Doing something you like in the company of both men and women keeps you socially engaged. I met a potential shag there, but more importantly had a lot of fun and keep my social calendar full. Eventually the odds will get you a win.
Did you try BeeTalk in Thailand? It has a proximity feature which works pretty well. I also used Tinder there. Only the duration of your stay limits your opportunity.