07-26-2024, 04:20 PM
Just getting dates in Thailand is much easier if you're using the internet exclusively. The language barrier means that the girls know that there isn't *that* much they are going to learn about you through chatting, and most Thai girls are just generally less standoffish than western girls.
I am assuming that you are from the US, but I could be wrong. If you are though, then don't approach internet dating the same as you would a Thai girl. You've got to get a quick, witty, conversation going with them and then escalate to a phone call, and then a date immediately. Girls presume a lot of things, so they will assume your style, motive, voice, etc... just by looking at your pics. So the less barriers that you break down, the better. I used to be so good at internet dating back home, that I was able to get girls I had never met before to drive hours to come meet me. Lol. I had a couple girls I had never met before fly in from other countries, and many from other states (at their expense) just to spend a night or two with me.
But, with that said... Internet dating is the stupidest kind of dating back home. If you want quick dates back home, you have to work on approaching. That is how you fill your phone with numbers and get same day and next day dates. The girls have no room for making assumptions about you and you cut away all their fears. Because they've met you already! You're sure to get rejected some, but it comes with the territory. Go out in the world, and approach hot girls... Start up quirky conversations, make them laugh, build attraction. Sometimes you can get them to go on a date with you then and there, but if not you will almost always get a date in the next couple days if they give you their number. Girls back home respect guys who approach them a lot more than the guys who sit behind screens trying to lure them out.
With that said, I do date, but I guess is a given since I live in Thailand now. I am a very passive dater and not really a hunter anymore. I have a Thaifriendly account, but I only login when I get a message, and only reply if it's a girl I'm interested in. Otherwise, I just approach girls that I see out in the streets, get their LINE, and take them out. My other weapon of choice is Facebook... I love cold messaging hot girls on Facebook and meeting up with them. Since it's not a dating app, the girls seem less sketched out about me.
But other than that, I just approach girls when I'm out and about and try to start up conversations with them. Because I'm a farang who speaks Thai, they are usually receptive. Also, I work on building friendships... I don't really go try to get them to my room and try to have sex with them right away, which they seem to really appreciate. I personally like going out to eat and catching a good movie, and having a cute girl accompany me is fun. Sometimes it leads further and sometimes it doesn't. But networking with the girls and having them realize that I'm a good guy usually leads to me getting introduced to their girlfriends too, and there is usually one in the lot that I connect with.
If I just want a quick fuck, I don't mind paying for it and don't bother dating for that. I'll go to one of the many establishments made for that and get my kicks and leave with no expectations from either end. And of course, there is the odd, occasional newbie bargirl that I'll see who I can't resist crossing the line with and end up dating her too. But that's pretty rare for me.
I am assuming that you are from the US, but I could be wrong. If you are though, then don't approach internet dating the same as you would a Thai girl. You've got to get a quick, witty, conversation going with them and then escalate to a phone call, and then a date immediately. Girls presume a lot of things, so they will assume your style, motive, voice, etc... just by looking at your pics. So the less barriers that you break down, the better. I used to be so good at internet dating back home, that I was able to get girls I had never met before to drive hours to come meet me. Lol. I had a couple girls I had never met before fly in from other countries, and many from other states (at their expense) just to spend a night or two with me.
But, with that said... Internet dating is the stupidest kind of dating back home. If you want quick dates back home, you have to work on approaching. That is how you fill your phone with numbers and get same day and next day dates. The girls have no room for making assumptions about you and you cut away all their fears. Because they've met you already! You're sure to get rejected some, but it comes with the territory. Go out in the world, and approach hot girls... Start up quirky conversations, make them laugh, build attraction. Sometimes you can get them to go on a date with you then and there, but if not you will almost always get a date in the next couple days if they give you their number. Girls back home respect guys who approach them a lot more than the guys who sit behind screens trying to lure them out.
With that said, I do date, but I guess is a given since I live in Thailand now. I am a very passive dater and not really a hunter anymore. I have a Thaifriendly account, but I only login when I get a message, and only reply if it's a girl I'm interested in. Otherwise, I just approach girls that I see out in the streets, get their LINE, and take them out. My other weapon of choice is Facebook... I love cold messaging hot girls on Facebook and meeting up with them. Since it's not a dating app, the girls seem less sketched out about me.
But other than that, I just approach girls when I'm out and about and try to start up conversations with them. Because I'm a farang who speaks Thai, they are usually receptive. Also, I work on building friendships... I don't really go try to get them to my room and try to have sex with them right away, which they seem to really appreciate. I personally like going out to eat and catching a good movie, and having a cute girl accompany me is fun. Sometimes it leads further and sometimes it doesn't. But networking with the girls and having them realize that I'm a good guy usually leads to me getting introduced to their girlfriends too, and there is usually one in the lot that I connect with.
If I just want a quick fuck, I don't mind paying for it and don't bother dating for that. I'll go to one of the many establishments made for that and get my kicks and leave with no expectations from either end. And of course, there is the odd, occasional newbie bargirl that I'll see who I can't resist crossing the line with and end up dating her too. But that's pretty rare for me.