07-26-2024, 03:30 PM
Your experience is very different than mine, Tom-Tit. All the former bargrils who I've stayed in touch with who have gotten out of the game went on to live perfectly normal and happy lives. They are happily married, have kids children, work normal jobs and generally have swept the bargirl portion of their life under the rug.
I will admit that I do not know any former bargirls who've had successful relationships with mongers. Indeed those all ended eventually, but that's probably because they jumped into a relationship too fast, it was based on money rather than love, etc.
Will some girls end up damaged? I'm sure some will, yes. But I think that saying that all girls bargirls will be damaged is an extremely upside down blanket statement. With the number of former bargirls that span the generations and virtually none of them seeking mental health, there would be a whole lots of depressed woman running around, living in the streets, throwing their life in the gutter. But this is still the land of smiles. The suicide rate in the United States is higher (where there are no bargirls and a therapist is on every block), and generally men in Thailand kill themselves at a ratio of 5 to 1 vs women. Those numbers are very telling.
I will admit that I do not know any former bargirls who've had successful relationships with mongers. Indeed those all ended eventually, but that's probably because they jumped into a relationship too fast, it was based on money rather than love, etc.
Will some girls end up damaged? I'm sure some will, yes. But I think that saying that all girls bargirls will be damaged is an extremely upside down blanket statement. With the number of former bargirls that span the generations and virtually none of them seeking mental health, there would be a whole lots of depressed woman running around, living in the streets, throwing their life in the gutter. But this is still the land of smiles. The suicide rate in the United States is higher (where there are no bargirls and a therapist is on every block), and generally men in Thailand kill themselves at a ratio of 5 to 1 vs women. Those numbers are very telling.