07-26-2024, 03:24 PM
Great insight Diabolic and Viandefraich - much appreciated! Certainly some issues raised there.
Previously I spent two consecutive evenings with her in her bar. Plenty of banter, games and laughter despite the language barrier. As I said before, both times ended up LT. On the first night we stopped by at her place because she wanted to change her shoes ???? ????, she told me lives with a friend who works at the bar...it was all within walking distance anyway - small town!
Sure, after only two times I can't say I know her at all, but felt enough spark to think spending more time (particularly during the day) would be fun. We've kept in touch since via LINE, almost every other day, her own timeline posts very rarely get other guys posting on there, and she doesn't have FB or wechat (so she tells me). although it's usually me who starts the conversation, she is constantly positive and vibey, even despite the recent passing of HM. Bar closure has meant no job for her - she says for 30 days, despite the bar being open after the initial 3 days (my guess is that the bar is open for a low key month with no BG's allowed?)
This, she says, means she cannot stay in Thailand (she is from Lao), and would have to temporarily return to Lao for a month. A few days since, she say she she doesn't need to return after all. Anyway, she hasn't asked for money at any point. She seems very keen to spend time with me on my next return.
Previously I spent two consecutive evenings with her in her bar. Plenty of banter, games and laughter despite the language barrier. As I said before, both times ended up LT. On the first night we stopped by at her place because she wanted to change her shoes ???? ????, she told me lives with a friend who works at the bar...it was all within walking distance anyway - small town!
Sure, after only two times I can't say I know her at all, but felt enough spark to think spending more time (particularly during the day) would be fun. We've kept in touch since via LINE, almost every other day, her own timeline posts very rarely get other guys posting on there, and she doesn't have FB or wechat (so she tells me). although it's usually me who starts the conversation, she is constantly positive and vibey, even despite the recent passing of HM. Bar closure has meant no job for her - she says for 30 days, despite the bar being open after the initial 3 days (my guess is that the bar is open for a low key month with no BG's allowed?)
This, she says, means she cannot stay in Thailand (she is from Lao), and would have to temporarily return to Lao for a month. A few days since, she say she she doesn't need to return after all. Anyway, she hasn't asked for money at any point. She seems very keen to spend time with me on my next return.