07-26-2024, 03:06 PM
My advice is to quit thinking so much. The only difference between her and a girl back home is that she lives far away, and her "In debt" probably seems like a lot to her when it is most likely 50,000 baht or something. Back in the west, if a girl is in debt it's more like $40,000 credit card debt and $30,000 in student loans. That's real debt.
A lot of guys get hung up on "What should I do?" when they start liking a Thai girl.
Don't.
Just go have fun with her and let your experiences with her be the deciding factor. If you're out with her, and can't quit thinking about running off to the bar and fucking, then you're not ready for a relationship. If you're with her, and you can picture a future with her, then go for it. Trying to decide what to do when you're just chatting long distance won't work because there is too much doubt.
A lot of guys get hung up on "What should I do?" when they start liking a Thai girl.
Don't.
Just go have fun with her and let your experiences with her be the deciding factor. If you're out with her, and can't quit thinking about running off to the bar and fucking, then you're not ready for a relationship. If you're with her, and you can picture a future with her, then go for it. Trying to decide what to do when you're just chatting long distance won't work because there is too much doubt.