07-26-2024, 02:40 PM
Hi everyone,
I’m reaching out for advice on adjusting my approach with Thai women, based on my recent experiences and upcoming move to Bangkok.
To give some background: I’m in my mid-thirties and relocating to Bangkok in August. I’ve been successful with my ‘Game’ techniques in the UK, which typically involves playfully saying no to requests while keeping things cheeky and fun. My approach has usually been effective, and I’ve seen good results.
Before my move, I started connecting with Thai women through chat sites. Most of them speak good English, which is fortunate since I don’t speak Thai. I've been in regular contact with several women, and one in particular stands out. We’ve developed a great rapport, and our conversations have included a mix of playful teasing and genuine connection. She seems to be genuinely interested, and we’ve had a lot of fun banter.
However, recently she expressed some frustration over my approach, specifically when I resisted a playful request for something “innocent.” She felt that I was always expecting something in return, which upset her.
Given this, I’m wondering if my typical ‘Game’ approach needs to be adjusted for Thai women. From my experience, Thai women might respond differently compared to Western women, who often expect a certain level of dominance or assertiveness. Thai culture might be more sensitive to consistent resistance, and I’m concerned that my approach might be coming off as too demanding or insincere.
Here are my questions:
Thanks in advance for your help!
I’m reaching out for advice on adjusting my approach with Thai women, based on my recent experiences and upcoming move to Bangkok.
To give some background: I’m in my mid-thirties and relocating to Bangkok in August. I’ve been successful with my ‘Game’ techniques in the UK, which typically involves playfully saying no to requests while keeping things cheeky and fun. My approach has usually been effective, and I’ve seen good results.
Before my move, I started connecting with Thai women through chat sites. Most of them speak good English, which is fortunate since I don’t speak Thai. I've been in regular contact with several women, and one in particular stands out. We’ve developed a great rapport, and our conversations have included a mix of playful teasing and genuine connection. She seems to be genuinely interested, and we’ve had a lot of fun banter.
However, recently she expressed some frustration over my approach, specifically when I resisted a playful request for something “innocent.” She felt that I was always expecting something in return, which upset her.
Given this, I’m wondering if my typical ‘Game’ approach needs to be adjusted for Thai women. From my experience, Thai women might respond differently compared to Western women, who often expect a certain level of dominance or assertiveness. Thai culture might be more sensitive to consistent resistance, and I’m concerned that my approach might be coming off as too demanding or insincere.
Here are my questions:
- Cultural Sensitivity: How should I adjust my approach to be more culturally sensitive and build a genuine connection with Thai women? Is there a need to soften my ‘Game’ tactics to avoid misunderstandings?
- Balancing Playfulness and Respect: What’s the best way to maintain playful interactions while ensuring that the other person feels valued and respected?
- Building Authentic Relationships: For those who have had long-term relationships with Thai women, how did you navigate the cultural differences and build trust?
Thanks in advance for your help!