07-26-2024, 02:38 PM
You seem to have created an image of her that is very endearing, but ultimately she was prostituting herself for a living. It doesn't matter what the reasons were, this is an indication of the girls value system.
I don't want to insult anyone that has married a bar girl (whether they are still together or not) but I can't imagine building a life with someone who had decisions to make, and took THAT decision.
I think I would understand it more if the girl was dirt poor and turned to the bars to survive - but she (apparently) wasn't dirt poor, she just took up this profession to support a lifestyle including car and large house.
You have doubts for a good reason. Listen to your inner voice.
I don't want to insult anyone that has married a bar girl (whether they are still together or not) but I can't imagine building a life with someone who had decisions to make, and took THAT decision.
I think I would understand it more if the girl was dirt poor and turned to the bars to survive - but she (apparently) wasn't dirt poor, she just took up this profession to support a lifestyle including car and large house.
You have doubts for a good reason. Listen to your inner voice.