07-26-2024, 02:34 PM
For me the moral to the story has nothing to do with the girl. There are plenty of 'normal' Thai girls out there and you can find almost any kind of relationship you want if you want to be in the dating game - funny girls, smart girls, kind girls, grungy, arty, nerdy etc.. I know of western guys who live in Bangkok and have very normal and successful relationships with Thai girls (who don't work in bars), I know at least two guys who get more money spent on them than they spend on their partners.
For me the moral to the story is knowing what you want. Some times you don't know what you want, or are testing the waters. If you really want a relationship you have to go on a few dates, and no when to hold 'em and when to fold 'em. You can find a good relationship with a Thai girl if you put the efforts in, but it's best done away from the bar scene. If your priority is good sex and you've got the money, you may as well cut to the chase.
For me the moral to the story is knowing what you want. Some times you don't know what you want, or are testing the waters. If you really want a relationship you have to go on a few dates, and no when to hold 'em and when to fold 'em. You can find a good relationship with a Thai girl if you put the efforts in, but it's best done away from the bar scene. If your priority is good sex and you've got the money, you may as well cut to the chase.