07-26-2024, 02:33 PM
A friend of mine had a very similar situation in the Philippines, he did the bars for years and finally started dating a girl who worked in a mall in Manila. He complained about the sex, and after time she started making small money requests, and as her confidence grew she asked for more and more money. he said the sex was bad and he ended up spending a lot on the girl over the years. He did sneak off plenty to visit the bars and treat himself times, but he was felt guilty and uncomfortable about it. So he gave up after two years and went back to just mongering in the bars and was happy again.