07-26-2024, 02:31 PM
As usual, Kimao gives some sound advice. I agree that learning Thai is going to be your biggest weapon in meeting traditional Thai girls. My ability to meet normal girls has skyrocked since I went from knowing nothing to be able to coversate mostly in Thai.
Like you I am really only attracted to the 20 somethings, and from my experience most of them outside of p4p are very much "good girls" and have some very immature elements. I recall one of the first girls I met off of Facebook who was 20 years old came to my hotel and what does she turn on the TV? Barney & Friends! I about shit my pants that she wanted to watch a show for toddlers. They are not all like this however.
Most of the normal girls I have met do not drink much at all, with a few exceptions thrown in here and there. If you spend a considerable amount of time with girls who are close to the p4p scene who like to go out and party and drink all night it can be a bit of a bummer when you meet a normal girl who would rather do cutesy things than go out and party. The incredible looks, talent, and good times from the p4p girls can and will spoil you very quickly, and you will find that your standards are constantly escalating.
My strategy is a little bit different than Kimao. I look at it this way.... There are 5 million girls in Bangkok, why the hell am I going to settle? I don't feel I have to searh for the older girls. I know for a fact that there is a good girl that I'm going to meet who is insanely hot, great in bed, and a lot of fun to talk to and be around. I'm confident that there are girls in their 20's who are like this, even if they may be rare, so I just meet any girl I think has potential and go from there. And with each experience my "game" becomes a little bit better.
Also remember that what you see is not what you get in any relationship, whether it be a Thai or a Western woman. It's fun to show girls new things and take them to new places... Slowly but surely the girls will become more like you and you will become more like them. Do some of the cutesy stuff that they want to do and they will do some of the wild stuff you want to do. I've had a few girls remind me how fun it can be to just go out and stroll the market or watch a movie together, while I've also took some sheltered girls out to RCA and brought their party side out of them.
When living in the fast lane it's easy to keep going faster and faster... Sometimes a good girl is the perfect thing to balance you and make you more grounded.
Like you I am really only attracted to the 20 somethings, and from my experience most of them outside of p4p are very much "good girls" and have some very immature elements. I recall one of the first girls I met off of Facebook who was 20 years old came to my hotel and what does she turn on the TV? Barney & Friends! I about shit my pants that she wanted to watch a show for toddlers. They are not all like this however.
Most of the normal girls I have met do not drink much at all, with a few exceptions thrown in here and there. If you spend a considerable amount of time with girls who are close to the p4p scene who like to go out and party and drink all night it can be a bit of a bummer when you meet a normal girl who would rather do cutesy things than go out and party. The incredible looks, talent, and good times from the p4p girls can and will spoil you very quickly, and you will find that your standards are constantly escalating.
My strategy is a little bit different than Kimao. I look at it this way.... There are 5 million girls in Bangkok, why the hell am I going to settle? I don't feel I have to searh for the older girls. I know for a fact that there is a good girl that I'm going to meet who is insanely hot, great in bed, and a lot of fun to talk to and be around. I'm confident that there are girls in their 20's who are like this, even if they may be rare, so I just meet any girl I think has potential and go from there. And with each experience my "game" becomes a little bit better.
Also remember that what you see is not what you get in any relationship, whether it be a Thai or a Western woman. It's fun to show girls new things and take them to new places... Slowly but surely the girls will become more like you and you will become more like them. Do some of the cutesy stuff that they want to do and they will do some of the wild stuff you want to do. I've had a few girls remind me how fun it can be to just go out and stroll the market or watch a movie together, while I've also took some sheltered girls out to RCA and brought their party side out of them.
When living in the fast lane it's easy to keep going faster and faster... Sometimes a good girl is the perfect thing to balance you and make you more grounded.