Fell in love with a bar girl. Want to move on. Advice?

[johnson13]

I have had my fair share of breakups in my life. Some initiated by me, some not. It will do you no good to sit and wait for the pain to go away. What you need is emotional distance from this girl. Time will not do that for you. Creating new experiences is the way to do it. Go out, find new things to do, get a hobby, fuck other girls, anything. Everything you do now that makes you feel better will create more distance. This will soften the painful memory.

I try not to post unless I genuinely have something to add. And this is of course just my experience. But I totally sympathize with you man. This sucks.

be strong,