07-25-2024, 04:05 PM
I kinda get it man. I'll trade you a story. I wasted nearly months of chit chat with a couple of TF girls who keep escalating the situation even while we only had a few actual dates. I could always see thru the BS because of the language barrier, the set-up and silly ruse was always obvious. Now these weren't girls from bars. No. They were ladies with regular day jobs. One of which, let's call her Honey, I knew if I banged her she'd try and get me on the dangle. She wanted to be married yesterday. Fuck that shit. In the end she blocked me out of the blue and I was so utterly relived when she did.
Then a few months ago another TF girl who i'd had dates with started getting all hot and heavy, asking me to be her BF and get her out here to Oz to study, I checked that shit immediately, after which she blocked me on Line without warning or explanation. Again I felt relived. And for the trifecta had another girl stop talking to me around Valentines day. She presented herself as a normal working girl. Just like the previous two. But I still wonder if maybe, just maybe, she was a working girl who split her time in Pattaya.
It's cold and while I don't understand the culture or their circumstances, or even their desperation, for me there was the feeling of some scheming sense at work that was always ticking away. Maybe that's the streetwise sensitivity of the hustle. What I do recognize is that I am a waste of time. I am Thai. I don't plan on being Thai so dating was pretty much for the experience and selfish stupid stupid hope that it might lead towards something else. Geez what the fuck was I thinking.
Anyway I dunno if I'll waste time with dates while visiting the kingdom. I don't live there like you do, so for me the scene is the way to go.
Good luck with it mate.
Then a few months ago another TF girl who i'd had dates with started getting all hot and heavy, asking me to be her BF and get her out here to Oz to study, I checked that shit immediately, after which she blocked me on Line without warning or explanation. Again I felt relived. And for the trifecta had another girl stop talking to me around Valentines day. She presented herself as a normal working girl. Just like the previous two. But I still wonder if maybe, just maybe, she was a working girl who split her time in Pattaya.
It's cold and while I don't understand the culture or their circumstances, or even their desperation, for me there was the feeling of some scheming sense at work that was always ticking away. Maybe that's the streetwise sensitivity of the hustle. What I do recognize is that I am a waste of time. I am Thai. I don't plan on being Thai so dating was pretty much for the experience and selfish stupid stupid hope that it might lead towards something else. Geez what the fuck was I thinking.
Anyway I dunno if I'll waste time with dates while visiting the kingdom. I don't live there like you do, so for me the scene is the way to go.
Good luck with it mate.