07-25-2024, 03:54 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-01-2024, 02:43 AM by aiden15632.)
When to Avoid Contact
Lack of Interest: If you're not interested in meeting her again or continuing any form of relationship, it's usually best to let it be. Reaching out might lead to confusion or unwanted complications.
Bar Context:
Working at the Bar: If she works there, contact could blur the lines between a personal and professional relationship. This could make things awkward if you visit the bar again.
Hanging Out: If she just hangs out at the bar, it’s still best to keep things casual and avoid unnecessary entanglements.
Respect Boundaries: If she has ignored you previously, respect her boundaries. Attempting to reconnect might not be well-received if she’s not interested.
Vacation Context: Vacation flings are often fleeting and might not translate well into lasting connections. Enjoy the experience for what it is and move on without pressing for further contact.
If You Do Decide to Reach Out
Keep it Casual: If you choose to contact her, keep the message light and friendly. Acknowledge the fun you had during your vacation without pushing for anything more.
Be Clear: Make it clear that you’re not seeking a deeper connection. This helps manage expectations and avoids any potential misunderstandings.
Ultimately, if you’re unsure about reconnecting, it’s usually safest to respect both her space and your own feelings and let it go.
Lack of Interest: If you're not interested in meeting her again or continuing any form of relationship, it's usually best to let it be. Reaching out might lead to confusion or unwanted complications.
Bar Context:
Working at the Bar: If she works there, contact could blur the lines between a personal and professional relationship. This could make things awkward if you visit the bar again.
Hanging Out: If she just hangs out at the bar, it’s still best to keep things casual and avoid unnecessary entanglements.
Respect Boundaries: If she has ignored you previously, respect her boundaries. Attempting to reconnect might not be well-received if she’s not interested.
Vacation Context: Vacation flings are often fleeting and might not translate well into lasting connections. Enjoy the experience for what it is and move on without pressing for further contact.
If You Do Decide to Reach Out
Keep it Casual: If you choose to contact her, keep the message light and friendly. Acknowledge the fun you had during your vacation without pushing for anything more.
Be Clear: Make it clear that you’re not seeking a deeper connection. This helps manage expectations and avoids any potential misunderstandings.
Ultimately, if you’re unsure about reconnecting, it’s usually safest to respect both her space and your own feelings and let it go.