07-25-2024, 03:05 PM
I'm not really sure what your expectations were when you invited her to drop what she's doing to leave her family at home to come be your pretend gf for 6 weeks? Hoping it'd become serious? Just a travel buddy for 6 weeks?
I've travelled with girls before that I'm friends with still in the p4p world but I always had the personal policy of, no sex, I'll still see other girls, no money for them, we are friends and nothing more, you pay for your own flights, they were always tagging along with me so hotels were already booked so whether I'm alone or with them the price is the same, I'm going to do what I want to do during my holiday and unless you're paying your way food wise I'm choosing every restaurant we eat at. If that doesn't suit them, I'm not bothered if they don't come because I typically prefer solo travel anyway.
Something that's been on my mind lately is how so many of these girls have Thai boyfriends that leech off them financially, but with farangs it's expected he will financially support her and half her village at home. And the second the money stops from Mr. Farang, the relationship is over. Makes you think...
Perhaps I'm cold, but I only give money to people for services rendered. I definitely wouldn't be sending a bar girl or even an ordinary girl money for no reason when they aren't even physically with me.
I've travelled with girls before that I'm friends with still in the p4p world but I always had the personal policy of, no sex, I'll still see other girls, no money for them, we are friends and nothing more, you pay for your own flights, they were always tagging along with me so hotels were already booked so whether I'm alone or with them the price is the same, I'm going to do what I want to do during my holiday and unless you're paying your way food wise I'm choosing every restaurant we eat at. If that doesn't suit them, I'm not bothered if they don't come because I typically prefer solo travel anyway.
Something that's been on my mind lately is how so many of these girls have Thai boyfriends that leech off them financially, but with farangs it's expected he will financially support her and half her village at home. And the second the money stops from Mr. Farang, the relationship is over. Makes you think...
Perhaps I'm cold, but I only give money to people for services rendered. I definitely wouldn't be sending a bar girl or even an ordinary girl money for no reason when they aren't even physically with me.