Have you become more sexually active during the Covid lockdown?

[johnson13]

We are all in lockdown across the world. The global pause has dramatically shifted our routines, relationships, and even our sexual behaviors. For many, the additional time at home has created opportunities to reconnect with partners, explore intimacy in new ways, and rekindle passion that may have been overlooked in the busyness of pre-pandemic life. Couples, like you in your 50s, often report enjoying this slower pace and finding time to focus on their relationship, fostering a deeper bond and more fulfilling intimacy.

For others, lockdown has sparked creativity in their sex lives. With fewer distractions and more time together, couples have begun experimenting with new practices, from trying out toys and role-playing to exploring fantasies or rediscovering the art of sensual touch. Even singles have embraced the change, using technology for virtual dating or learning to prioritize their own pleasure through self-exploration and mindfulness. This period has encouraged many to break free from routine and try things they might never have considered before.

Of course, the impact hasn’t been universally positive. Stress, financial worries, and the monotony of lockdown life have affected sexual desire for some individuals and couples. The key to navigating these challenges lies in open communication, understanding, and compassion. Discussing desires, insecurities, or even fears with a partner can pave the way for rebuilding intimacy. For singles, focusing on self-care and maintaining emotional connections with others—even virtually—can help keep the spark alive.

Your invitation for others to share their experiences is a beautiful way to foster connection and learning during this time. Whether couples have found joy in experimenting or singles have discovered new ways to embrace their independence, the lockdown has offered an opportunity to reevaluate and enhance our sexual well-being. By sharing tips, stories, and insights, we can all come out of this challenging time with a better understanding of ourselves and our relationships.

[hanar123]

Honestly, I think the lockdown gave me a chance to really focus on myself. I was so used to the hustle of work, social events, and always running around. Suddenly, everything stopped, and I had time to reflect on what I wanted. For me, it became about self-exploration. I found myself getting more comfortable with my own body and desires. Watching porn, reading up on different sexual techniques, and even trying some new solo activities opened my eyes to areas I hadn't thought much about before.

At the same time, I did have more opportunities to engage in virtual dating. It wasn’t as immediate as meeting in person, but it did push me to be more creative. Video dates became a way to build deeper connections, and I think in some ways it was even more intimate. We got to talk more about our wants and fantasies in a way I never had the chance to before with casual meet-ups.

There were some challenges too. I think the isolation brought up feelings of loneliness for a lot of people, including me. Not having physical contact can mess with your mind a little. But I found that by focusing on my own pleasure and not rushing into relationships, I was able to maintain a level of intimacy, even if it wasn’t physical.

So yeah, in many ways, I feel like the lockdown made me more in tune with my sexuality and my needs. It wasn't just about being "more sexually active" but being more aware and open to exploring different facets of intimacy.

[amravat123]

I can’t say I became more sexually active during the lockdown, but I definitely got more creative. It wasn’t all bad—being in lockdown gave me the time to experiment with things I had never thought of before. I started using more adult toys and even tried out a few new kinks I’d always been curious about. The lack of distractions made me focus more on my partner and our connection. We’d never been so attentive to each other's desires before, and it made everything feel more meaningful.

The one thing I really embraced was role-playing. I know it sounds a little cliché, but it was actually a fun way to break the monotony of being stuck at home. We could be whoever we wanted, explore different dynamics, and escape into fantasy for a bit. It made our sex life feel fresh again, which I’m sure helped both of us mentally during the lockdown.

That said, I think it's easy to forget that a lot of people struggled with intimacy during this time. Being stuck at home with your partner for long stretches can be tough—arguments and stress can kill your desire. But we learned to communicate better about our needs and feelings. Honestly, that’s what helped us keep things exciting.

For those who are single, I think the lockdown forced us to redefine what intimacy means. You don’t always need to be physically with someone to feel connected. Zoom calls and FaceTime dates can feel surprisingly intimate if you make the effort.

[deigo123]

I’m not gonna lie—I went through some ups and downs during the lockdown. In the beginning, it felt weird. I’m used to a fast-paced life, meeting new people, traveling, and living that freedom. Suddenly, I was home all day. At first, I thought I would be super frustrated about not being able to meet women or even have those casual flings I’m used to. But strangely, the slower pace did open up opportunities for reflection.

I had the chance to reconnect with some old friends and even explored virtual dating more seriously. What I didn’t expect was how that would shift my perspective. There’s something about being forced into isolation that makes you really think about what you're looking for in a partner. It wasn’t about just sex anymore. I actually started valuing emotional connections, and it became clear that I wanted someone I could truly build a relationship with, not just a fling.

That said, I’ll admit the physical side was tough. Being single and locked down meant no spontaneous meet-ups or flirting in bars. But, I learned to channel that energy into being more self-aware and exploring things solo. Sometimes it’s easy to forget how important it is to prioritize your own pleasure, and the lockdown gave me that space.

In a way, I came out of it more confident in my own desires, and I think that will only help me in future relationships. Not everything has to be about physical encounters; sometimes the best connections happen when you're open about your needs and vulnerabilities.

[piciossa]

During the lockdown, I actually found myself becoming less sexually active, which I wasn’t expecting. I thought the extra time at home would lead to more action, but it had the opposite effect. I was dealing with stress from work and just the overall weight of everything going on in the world. That definitely affected my desire to be intimate.

However, it did push me to explore other avenues for connecting with myself. I started doing more yoga, mindfulness, and meditation, which helped me reconnect with my body and my sexual energy in a different way. I realized I wasn’t prioritizing my own pleasure in the chaos of my regular routine, but the lockdown gave me space to change that.

For singles, I think the lockdown made us get creative about how we date. It wasn’t just about the physical anymore—it was about mental and emotional connection. Virtual dating platforms became a huge thing for me. While it wasn’t the same as in-person chemistry, there was a deeper level of conversation and vulnerability that emerged.

If anything, the lockdown taught me that intimacy doesn’t always mean sex. I came out of it with a new appreciation for emotional closeness, and that’s something I hope to bring into future relationships.

[antonio123]

For me, the lockdown was a weird time for sexual activity. On one hand, I had more time on my hands to focus on relationships—both with myself and others. On the other hand, being stuck at home for months felt like a breeding ground for frustration. I’m someone who thrives on meeting new people and spontaneous adventures, so having that cut off made me feel a bit disconnected. But in the quiet moments, I realized I needed to slow down and listen to my own body.

I experimented with self-pleasure in new ways—whether through different techniques or exploring fantasies that I never gave myself permission to consider. The space gave me a chance to reconnect with my sexual desires and reframe what intimacy meant. And as for virtual dating? It was hit or miss. Sometimes it was awkward, but other times it felt surprisingly deep. You actually got to know someone better without all the distractions.

I also realized how important it is to stay mentally and emotionally connected. Physical attraction is just one part of the equation. The lockdown pushed me to focus on deeper aspects of intimacy, like communication, trust, and building emotional bonds. I can’t wait to bring this new mindset into real-life dating.

So yeah, the lockdown didn’t make me more sexually active in the traditional sense, but it did help me connect with my desires and think about intimacy in new ways.