boy+boy: First time... ??? please share

[johnson13]

Hey, I have a question for boys (gay, bi, or even straight, if you have some homosexual experiences) ? Actually, I would really like to know about your first homosexual experiences. I would be soooo happy, please share this with me. Anything from the first kiss to going all the way with a guy. Just curious.


Curiosity about others' experiences is such a natural part of understanding human connections, especially when it comes to the nuances of attraction and intimacy. The first time we step outside what’s familiar and explore something new, particularly in matters of love or sexuality, is often filled with emotions—excitement, nervousness, and maybe even self-discovery. Hearing about those moments can be incredibly enlightening, showing how different yet universal these experiences can be.


For some, the first kiss or intimate moment with another guy might have felt spontaneous, perhaps a natural progression of a deep friendship or a situation where emotions overcame hesitation. Others might describe a sense of clarity or validation, a realization that what they were feeling wasn’t just curiosity but a genuine part of who they are. These first steps often carry a blend of thrill and vulnerability, as they mark the beginning of a journey into understanding oneself and one’s desires.


Then there’s the emotional layer—how these experiences shape and redefine relationships, both with oneself and with others. Whether it was a fleeting moment, a passionate encounter, or something more meaningful, every story adds to the rich tapestry of human connection. Sharing these moments not only fosters understanding but also helps normalize diverse experiences, showing that attraction and exploration are deeply personal and valid.


So, if you’re comfortable, I’d love to hear your stories. Whether it’s about that nervous energy before a first kiss, the laughter shared in a tender moment, or even the questions that followed afterward, every detail offers insight into the beautiful complexity of human emotions and relationships. Let’s celebrate these unique experiences and the courage it takes to share them.

[amravat123]

I remember my first experience like it happened yesterday. I was in college, and while I had always identified as straight, there was a guy in my dorm that I just couldn’t stop thinking about. We became close friends over time, but there was always this unspoken tension between us. One night, we were hanging out in his room after a party, just talking and laughing. As the night went on, the mood shifted—it got quieter, more intimate.

At one point, we locked eyes, and I could feel my heart pounding. It was terrifying but exciting at the same time. He leaned in, and before I could even process it, we were kissing. It was soft and hesitant at first, but then it became more passionate. I remember feeling a mix of confusion and exhilaration—it was so different from anything I’d ever experienced, but it felt surprisingly natural.

Afterward, we talked for hours. He told me he had always been into guys but didn’t want to pressure me into anything. That honesty and vulnerability made me feel safe enough to admit that I had been curious for a long time but was too afraid to explore it. That night wasn’t just about the physical—it was about understanding a new part of myself and feeling okay with it.

Looking back, I’m grateful for that experience. It opened my mind and helped me understand that attraction doesn’t always fit neatly into categories. Even though we didn’t end up in a relationship, that moment was a turning point for me, and it’s something I’ll always cherish.

[hanar123]

My first time with another guy happened when I was 19. I had been questioning my sexuality for a while but never acted on it. Then I met this guy at work—let’s call him Jake. He was charming, funny, and openly gay, which I found both intimidating and intriguing. We became friends, and I started looking forward to every shift we worked together.

One night, we were out with a group of coworkers, and after a few drinks, Jake asked if I wanted to hang out at his place. I was nervous but said yes. When we got there, we talked for hours, and eventually, the topic turned to relationships and attraction. I admitted that I wasn’t sure where I stood, and he asked if I’d ever kissed a guy. I said no, and he smiled and said, “Do you want to?”

That kiss was unlike anything I’d ever experienced. It wasn’t just the act itself—it was the freedom of letting go and embracing something I’d been afraid of for so long. We didn’t go all the way that night, but we did explore enough to make me realize that this was something I wanted to understand about myself.

Jake was patient and kind, which made all the difference. He didn’t rush me or make me feel uncomfortable. Instead, he helped me navigate my feelings and figure out what I wanted. That first experience wasn’t just about sex—it was about connection, trust, and self-discovery.

[deigo123]

For me, it started with a kiss. I had just moved to a new city for work and didn’t know anyone. One evening, I decided to check out a local LGBTQ+ bar, mostly out of curiosity. I wasn’t sure what I was looking for—I just knew I wanted to explore this part of myself that I had kept hidden for so long.

That’s where I met Chris. He was confident, outgoing, and had this energy that drew people in. We started talking, and it felt like we had known each other for years. By the end of the night, he asked if I wanted to grab a late-night bite, and we ended up walking around the city, talking about everything from music to childhood memories.

When we finally said goodbye, he leaned in and kissed me. It was gentle but electric, and I remember feeling like the world stopped for a moment. That kiss wasn’t just my first with a guy—it was my first step toward accepting myself.

We dated casually for a few months, and during that time, I learned so much about what I wanted and who I was. Chris was the perfect person to share that first experience with—he made me feel seen and valued. Even though we eventually went our separate ways, I’ll always be grateful for what he taught me.

[antonio123]

My first experience was totally unexpected and caught me off guard. I was 25 and traveling abroad for the first time. I stayed at a hostel where everyone was super friendly and open-minded. One of the guys there, Miguel, was this incredibly charismatic guy from Spain. We hit it off immediately, spending days exploring the city and nights hanging out with the group.

One evening, after a few drinks, Miguel and I ended up sitting alone on the rooftop. The conversation turned personal, and he asked if I’d ever been with a guy. I told him no but admitted that I’d thought about it. He smiled and said, “There’s a first time for everything.”

Before I knew it, we were kissing. It was thrilling and nerve-wracking all at once. We ended up spending the night together, and while it was clumsy at times, it was also incredibly intimate and freeing. Miguel was patient and understanding, which made the whole experience feel natural.

That night taught me so much about myself and helped me realize that exploring your desires doesn’t have to be scary. Miguel and I stayed friends, and every time I think about that trip, I smile. It wasn’t just about the physical connection—it was about stepping out of my comfort zone and embracing who I was.

[piciossa]

My first time with a guy happened in high school, and it was with my best friend. We had been inseparable for years, and while I always felt a little different around him, I never thought much of it. One night, we were having a sleepover, and after hours of talking, we started playing truth or dare—just for fun.

At one point, he dared me to kiss him. I laughed it off, but he didn’t. He looked at me seriously and said, “I’m curious. Aren’t you?” That question hit me like a ton of bricks because, deep down, I was curious. I leaned in and kissed him, and it felt like the most natural thing in the world.

That night, we didn’t go any further, but we did talk about what had happened. He admitted he had been feeling the same way for a while but was too scared to say anything. We decided to explore those feelings together, slowly and without any pressure.

Those months were some of the most formative of my life. Even though we eventually drifted apart, that first experience taught me so much about trust, communication, and the importance of being honest with yourself. It was the start of a journey that I’m still on, and I’ll always be grateful for the way it began.