Taking a Thai Girl on Holiday: What to Consider

[aiden15632]

1. Understanding the Costs
Bar Fine: To take a bar girl on holiday, you generally need to pay a "bar fine" to her employer. This typically ranges from 1,000 to 3,000 THB, depending on the establishment. Verify the exact amount and any additional fees with the bar or venue.

Daily Rate: Beyond the bar fine, expect to pay a daily rate for her company. This can range from 1,500 to 5,000 THB per day, influenced by her experience and your expectations. Negotiate and agree on this beforehand.

Additional Expenses: Cover all travel-related expenses, including flights, accommodation, and daily living costs. Discuss these details thoroughly to avoid misunderstandings.

2. Communication and Expectations
Clarify Roles: Clearly define the nature of the relationship and set mutual expectations. Ensure both parties understand that this arrangement is transactional and establish clear boundaries.

Discuss Travel Plans: Share your itinerary and ensure she is comfortable with the destinations and activities planned. Address any preferences or requirements she might have.

3. Legal and Practical Considerations
Visa Requirements: Verify the visa requirements for Thai citizens traveling to your destination. Ensure she has the necessary documents for entry and address any visa issues beforehand.

Travel Insurance: Purchase travel insurance for both of you to cover unforeseen events like medical emergencies or trip cancellations.

Health and Safety: Ensure she has the required vaccinations and is informed about any health precautions relevant to the destination.

4. Financial Management
Pre-Payments: Consider pre-paying major expenses like flights and accommodation to avoid complications. Agree on payment methods and how expenses will be managed during the trip.

Budgeting: Establish a comprehensive budget that includes her daily rate, activities, and any additional costs that might arise.

5. Handling Expectations
Personal Time: Recognize that she might need personal time or breaks during the trip. Respect her space and ensure the trip is enjoyable for both of you.

Genuine Connection: Aim to build a genuine connection and enjoy each other’s company rather than focusing solely on the transactional aspect of the relationship.

6. Post-Trip Considerations
Future Plans: Discuss your feelings about continuing the relationship after the trip and what the future might hold for both of you.

Feedback: Provide feedback on the experience and discuss any lessons learned or changes for future trips.

[daniel74]

I have had a few friends do this within Thailand...to Samui, Phuket, etc



I would recommend spending more time with her...What are you planning on doing in Cambodia? Do she have interest in Angkor Wat? will you be in PP?



not to much mongering in Siem Reap, so that might be fun...but perhaps you would rather hang out with other tourists??



I see a few girls every year "repeat visits", but I never think about bringing them anywhere. I would rather have my vacation and relax rather than deal with a TG that decides she is no longer interested in the vacation.

[hilululu]

Ask her if you have to pay to her on holiday. If so then ask how much.



I've never taken a Thai girl because of the language difficulty but I've taken a filipina bar girl to Cebu once. She told her mamasan she was going back to province/taking rest/whatever and just stopped going to work. Spent 5 days togrther, paid for everything then at the end gave her 5000p and that was that.



Another time I took a Manila girl that was sorta a FL, part time car show model, etc on holiday as well (taken her for ST previously for 3000p). Took her to a beach resort in Palawan for 3 days, paid for everything, and at the end just said goodbye and left.



Obviously this depends on how much they like you and how much they want to visit that particular area

[johnson13]

I've done it couple of times within Thailand. One was a freelance and the other a gogo girl. I had to pay the bar-fine for the gogo girl. Both times when I asked the girls how much, the response was up to you and never mentioned a figure. At the end of trip I would put the money in their hand bag making sure they saw it. None complained. I enjoyed their companies in both occasions, had a great time and was happy that I took them along. In my following trips, I bar-fined them and never had an issue. Just make sure that you both click.

[shant234]

First thanks for the responses, greatly appreciated.


I am going to Siem Reap in Cambodia and will not make it into PP this time around.
I wasn't planning to monger while in Cambodia, though I plan to go out and enjoy the night life and get shit faced with the tourists and locals every night.


I would agree that I need to get to know her a bit more. I don't really know her very well.
I arrive in BK on the 24th which is a Thursday in March, then at some point during my 10 days in the golden triangle I plan to do a three night stay in Siem Reap then come back to BK.
So I'm thinking that if I see her again then that would provide me with some better understanding of what's she's like to be around for more than 24 hrs.
She has been to Siem Reap before and is interested in revisiting the Angkor Wat temples. Which is why I want to go there.

I suppose that if I contacted her upon arrival in BK that this would make me a repeat customer.
And I have very recently been a repeat customer with a gogo and had good results.

Last week I went with a gogo that i'd been with last September and I had a wonderful time. She's funny and a bit cuckoo but its my kind of crazy.

But as for this girl, the one I was thinking of asking to come along for the trip there are still some things i need to qualify.
I only met her Thursday last week, but did not bar fine until the next night, and then we had a date on Saturday.

It's a happy surprise that she's still messaging me even after a week of being at home.

I can absolutely go to Siem Reap on my own. A mate of mine said recently, Why bring fish when you're fishing. which is a fair point.
I mean i'm not coming back to BK to see her exclusively. I had this March visit planned even before I met her.
So as far as going to Siem Reap with her I think it's a nice idea to take someone, anyone really, ten days in the golden triangle flying solo, so I'm just entertaining the idea at the moment, but more would need to be worked out before/if I decide to go for it. And who, (if anyone at all), I might go there with.



But I'm surprised that the telephony contact continues, I've been home a week. I'm actually enjoying the back and forth banter. It's good practise all the same. But the back and forth messaging is very affectionate.
I'm also being super careful. I don't want to confuse her or myself about the nature of things.

Reality may bite my on the arse here. So I'm being cautious.

The reality we share is that she's a gogo dancer so I know what that entails. It means that I'm a customer. So she's anyones girl. Thats the reality.

As far as - if she likes me. Well thats a fair question - But I don't know if she likes me, I am probably just some silly falang thats coming to BK in 7 weeks. Which is understandable. It's just business.



Either way thanks for the advice I have another 7 weeks to really think this through.