07-25-2024, 03:38 PM
I met a Thai girl on TF 2 weeks ago, and she has two sons from a Thai ex-boyfriend who was physically abusive.
She broke up with him a month before we met and is over him. She had wanted out of that relationship for a while.
She runs a restaurant in Bangkok which is owned by her ex but is run by her, and her ex has his own business. She makes Korean Fried Chicken and makes most of her money from online orders and can get by without the shopfront, which she needs to vacate due to the breakup.
She also lived in an apartment that was leased by her ex, which he moved out of when they broke up. She moved out a couple of days ago and moved in with her father, the sole carer for her two sons.
I must add that up until 2019, she was significantly overweight and looked nothing like she does today. The transformation is astonishing. She went from a chubby housewife who didn't care about her appearance, which most men wouldn't find attractive, to a 45kg petite beauty with supermodel looks.
We met once, and I had to leave Thailand, but we had a strong connection and have had an intense Long distance relationship ever since.
She is looking for a new shopfront because she needs a kitchen, and her father's house doesn't have the location or facilities for running her food business and doing her food deliveries.
She has loans of more than 70,000 THB, and the debtors are chasing her daily. She has never asked me for money and refuses when I offer it, saying we should get to know each other first.
I decided to help her with a 5,000 THB WU transfer two days ago because I see how hard she works, and she does seem genuinely need help. I'm not trying to save her, but I firmly believe that you should help the less fortunate if you are financially capable.
She found a food market yesterday near her home and was going to look at setting up her food business there. I am due to return next month. However, today, she said she could not meet me in May because things have become so desperate that she will have to go elsewhere for work to pay off her loans.
Red Flags and alarm bells ringing, and I knew what was going on. She has never worked in the Sex industry and still has that innocence of a woman who has feelings and will admit she is wrong and apologise when she has done wrong. She cries because she misses me and claims she loves me with all her heart.
I'm smart enough to know that you cannot fall in love with someone after two weeks, so I take that as typical of the behaviour of Thai women.
But here is the deal. I asked her if she was going to work in the sex industry.
This is common for many Thai women who were left with children by Thai ex-boyfriends and suffered severe financial distress. She tried to make ends meet, but the temptation of money was too compelling.
She didn't deny it! She plans to go to Phuket on the 27th of April to start work there. Someone recommended that she try it because she could clear her debts in 1-2 months.
Is she playing a game? The fact that she is honest about it makes me think she is fishing for more money and isn't going to go through with it.
I won't accept that, so I have said my goodbyes. I was looking forward to seeing her again, so I was slightly perplexed by the sudden change of heart.
I only met her once, but it just baffles me that she is willing to give up "the love of her life" so quickly. Worse yet, she is giving up any hope of finding a good man in the future if she works in that industry for any longer than two months.
She broke up with him a month before we met and is over him. She had wanted out of that relationship for a while.
She runs a restaurant in Bangkok which is owned by her ex but is run by her, and her ex has his own business. She makes Korean Fried Chicken and makes most of her money from online orders and can get by without the shopfront, which she needs to vacate due to the breakup.
She also lived in an apartment that was leased by her ex, which he moved out of when they broke up. She moved out a couple of days ago and moved in with her father, the sole carer for her two sons.
I must add that up until 2019, she was significantly overweight and looked nothing like she does today. The transformation is astonishing. She went from a chubby housewife who didn't care about her appearance, which most men wouldn't find attractive, to a 45kg petite beauty with supermodel looks.
We met once, and I had to leave Thailand, but we had a strong connection and have had an intense Long distance relationship ever since.
She is looking for a new shopfront because she needs a kitchen, and her father's house doesn't have the location or facilities for running her food business and doing her food deliveries.
She has loans of more than 70,000 THB, and the debtors are chasing her daily. She has never asked me for money and refuses when I offer it, saying we should get to know each other first.
I decided to help her with a 5,000 THB WU transfer two days ago because I see how hard she works, and she does seem genuinely need help. I'm not trying to save her, but I firmly believe that you should help the less fortunate if you are financially capable.
She found a food market yesterday near her home and was going to look at setting up her food business there. I am due to return next month. However, today, she said she could not meet me in May because things have become so desperate that she will have to go elsewhere for work to pay off her loans.
Red Flags and alarm bells ringing, and I knew what was going on. She has never worked in the Sex industry and still has that innocence of a woman who has feelings and will admit she is wrong and apologise when she has done wrong. She cries because she misses me and claims she loves me with all her heart.
I'm smart enough to know that you cannot fall in love with someone after two weeks, so I take that as typical of the behaviour of Thai women.
But here is the deal. I asked her if she was going to work in the sex industry.
This is common for many Thai women who were left with children by Thai ex-boyfriends and suffered severe financial distress. She tried to make ends meet, but the temptation of money was too compelling.
She didn't deny it! She plans to go to Phuket on the 27th of April to start work there. Someone recommended that she try it because she could clear her debts in 1-2 months.
Is she playing a game? The fact that she is honest about it makes me think she is fishing for more money and isn't going to go through with it.
I won't accept that, so I have said my goodbyes. I was looking forward to seeing her again, so I was slightly perplexed by the sudden change of heart.
I only met her once, but it just baffles me that she is willing to give up "the love of her life" so quickly. Worse yet, she is giving up any hope of finding a good man in the future if she works in that industry for any longer than two months.