??? about nipple stimulation

[johnson13]

Whenever my husband plays with my nipples, it doesn’t really turn me on the way it seems to for others—it actually just tickles. It’s kind of a weird feeling for me, and no matter how much he tries, it just doesn’t give me the pleasure I expect. Instead, I feel like I’m being tickled, and it’s not a particularly arousing sensation. I know for a lot of women, nipple stimulation is a huge turn-on, but for me, it’s just not that way. I’m really curious to know if anyone else has this experience.

The strange part is, I really enjoy when he rubs my breasts, but the moment he starts playing with my nipples, I can’t shake the ticklish feeling. It’s not that I don’t want to be intimate in that way or that I don’t appreciate the gesture—it’s just that it feels more like a tickling sensation than the kind of pleasure I’m hoping for. I’ve tried to explain this to him, and he’s been understanding, but I’ve never really gotten a clear sense of whether this is something other women experience, too.

It’s kind of funny, actually, because when I see how other women react to nipple stimulation, I feel like I’m missing out. They seem to get so much pleasure from it, and I’ve always wondered if I’m just wired differently. It’s something I’ve been thinking about more and more lately, especially as we explore different ways to make our intimacy more fulfilling for both of us.

But it’s not just about being ticklish; there’s also a little bit of frustration with it, to be honest. When we’re having intimate moments, and he tries to stimulate my nipples, I just can’t seem to get into it the way he might expect me to. Instead of feeling aroused, I feel like I’m trying to suppress the urge to laugh or squirm away. And that doesn’t help either of us feel more connected.

However, there is something I do enjoy—when he rubs my breasts. That’s actually something that gets me in the mood, and it can feel really intimate. I think I just need to find a way to communicate more about what feels good, and maybe we can figure out how to make that part of our connection even better. It’s just that when it comes to nipple play, I haven’t found a way to make it something I can fully enjoy yet.

So, I’m wondering, does anyone else get this ticklish feeling when their nipples are played with? Is it just me, or is there a group of us who don’t find it as pleasurable as others seem to? If so, have you found any ways to make nipple play feel less ticklish or more enjoyable? Maybe there’s a different technique or position I haven’t considered. I really want to make sure my husband knows how much I appreciate his effort, and I’m hoping there might be some tips or advice to make our intimate moments even more fulfilling.

If anyone has any advice, ideas, or stories to share, I’d really appreciate hearing them. It feels like it would make a big difference in our connection if we could figure out a way to enjoy this part of intimacy more fully.

[amravat123]

I can definitely relate to what you're saying about the ticklish feeling. For me, nipple stimulation has never been as big a turn-on as it is for others. I’ve had a few partners who were super into it, and while I didn’t mind it, it never really did much for me. It just felt like a weird, ticklish sensation that kind of distracted me from what was actually happening. I’ve always wondered if something’s just different about how we’re wired. It’s not that I didn’t appreciate their efforts, I just didn’t feel the same way.

I’ve tried a few different things to make it feel better, like adjusting the pressure or positioning, but nothing really seemed to work. What did help, though, was when I communicated with my partner about what does work for me, like focusing on other areas. They were really understanding about it, and we ended up finding other ways to build intimacy without the pressure to perform a certain way. Honestly, once I let go of trying to make it fit, things just felt more relaxed, and the connection deepened.

It’s frustrating when you see others enjoying something so much, and you feel left out, but I’ve learned that everyone’s body is different. There’s no one-size-fits-all. If nipple play isn’t doing it for you, there are plenty of other things to explore, and your partner might appreciate knowing that it’s just not your thing. They might also feel a bit awkward if they think they're missing the mark, so it’s really about communication.

I hope that helps, and I think you're on the right track by opening up about it. Trust me, there’s no shame in not being into something that others are. Keep experimenting with what works for you, and your intimacy will be better for it. You’re not alone in this!

[hanar123]

I completely get where you're coming from! I’ve been in relationships where my partner loved nipple stimulation, but I was more like you—I didn’t feel that great arousal from it. I remember feeling almost embarrassed because it seemed like such a big deal for others, but I didn’t want to fake that reaction. The ticklish sensation is exactly how I’d describe it too—almost like being too sensitive in a way that just doesn’t feel pleasurable.

What helped me was experimenting with different types of touch. For example, lighter, circular motions seemed to make it less ticklish, and sometimes using a little more pressure helped create a different sensation. That said, what worked even better was exploring other erogenous zones. The neck, the inner thighs, and even back massage can be really intimate and arousing. I had to get out of my head and accept that nipple play wasn’t going to be my thing, and that opened up space for other areas of intimacy to thrive.

I also agree that talking to your partner is key. If they know it's not about their effort being unappreciated but rather about the type of sensation you're feeling, it takes the pressure off. It can be a little awkward at first, but it makes the experience better for both people in the long run. Your connection and intimacy should be about what feels good, not about meeting a specific expectation.

I think you’re doing the right thing by seeking advice and trying to figure out how to communicate more effectively with your husband. He’ll likely appreciate the honesty, and you both will be able to enjoy each other’s company even more.

[deigo123]

I used to think I was the only one who felt this way. Nipple stimulation has always been something I’ve been neutral about, but I’ve been with a few partners who absolutely loved it, and I just couldn’t get into it. It’s like the sensation just didn’t connect for me the way it did for them. Sometimes, it even felt like my skin was overly sensitive in a way that was more irritating than exciting.

I started talking to my partner about it, and it was eye-opening. They didn’t realize I wasn’t enjoying it the way they expected, and once we started focusing on things that did excite me, it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. We explored other ways of connecting during intimacy, and that helped me realize that not all the pressure needs to go on one specific act. It’s about creating a balance.

As for the ticklish sensation, I tried different types of touch and different moments in the experience, and nothing really made a huge difference. What did help, though, was changing the focus to other things that felt better for me. Things like kissing, deep conversations, and exploring more physical intimacy in different ways made a big difference for both of us.

So no, you’re definitely not alone in this. Your experience is more common than you might think. Just keep experimenting with different types of touch and see where it leads. There’s no one "right" way to connect intimately.

[antonio123]

I’ve been with women who have that exact reaction to nipple play, so you're definitely not alone. In fact, it’s kind of funny how some people really enjoy it while others don’t, but that’s just how human bodies work. It’s not that something’s wrong with you or that your husband isn’t doing it right—it’s just that nipple stimulation might not be your thing, and that’s perfectly okay.

What I’ve found helps when I'm with someone who feels the same way you do is focusing on what does feel good. Maybe your breasts are more sensitive to certain kinds of touch, or your partner could focus more on massaging and stroking in other areas. I’ve had some great experiences by shifting the attention away from the nipples to other sensitive parts of the body, and it created a more fulfilling connection overall.

Another thing to consider is timing. Sometimes, in the middle of a passionate moment, certain things might feel different than they would if you were taking things slower. Maybe experimenting with a slower build-up or less direct stimulation might help you find a middle ground that works for both of you.

It’s all about being honest with each other and working together to find what feels best. You’re doing the right thing by sharing this and asking for advice. Keep an open mind, and you'll likely find a way to enjoy intimate moments that’s perfect for both you and your husband.

[piciossa]

Wow, I’ve had similar experiences with past partners. It’s always been a bit of a mystery to me why some people find nipple stimulation so incredibly arousing, while others don’t feel anything at all or experience that ticklish sensation. My last girlfriend had a similar reaction—you know, she’d enjoy everything else, but the moment nipple play came into the picture, she would start giggling or look uncomfortable. It was a little confusing at first because it wasn’t something I was used to, but once we started communicating, things got much better.

One thing I learned was that it's important to adjust your expectations. I thought I had to "get it right," but it turned out that her body just wasn’t responding in the same way. What really helped was focusing on what did feel good for her—caressing her arms, kissing her neck, or focusing on building up a connection in other ways. It’s not just about the physical act; it’s about how you engage with each other emotionally and physically.

If you’re interested in trying something a little different, maybe try touching and stimulating other areas near the breasts or chest. The inner arm, the back, or even under the armpits can have some surprising sensitivity that’s more enjoyable than nipple stimulation for some people. It’s just about experimenting and communicating until you find something that clicks.

You’re doing the right thing by talking about it, and I think it’ll really improve the intimacy between you and your husband once you both find a way to connect that works for you. Keep being open and honest with each other—you’re on the right track!