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These heartless Thai girls...
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07-25-2024, 04:04 PM
Has anyone else noticed just how heartless Thai girls can be? They're cute, sweet, and adorable sometimes but the longer I am here the more I am shocked at just how cold-hearted many of them can be. I'm specifically talking about any regular Thai girls, not just working girls. And it seems the hotter they are, the colder they're willing to be.





On multiple occasions over the past few years, I have been talking to girls who claimed they like me, and then suddenly out of the blue, completely turn cold for no rhyme or reason. There was no fight, no ill-will, no misunderstandings and no explanation of exactly what happened. Just a complete blackout.



An example... I met a girl the other day and right after meeting, she was texting me on LINE constantly, sending me photos of her, and calling me. One night after we met, she called me and told me that she likes me so much and thinks one day she will fall in love with me. She sent me a few cute stickers and asked me when I can see her again, then said goodnight and that she will text me when she wakes up to go to university.



The next morning when I woke up? I didn't have a good morning message from her. Instead, she had just blocked me. No explanation or idea what could have happened between the time she said goodnight and the time she woke up. Just blocked.



Another girl I had talked to on Thaifriendly every day for months. She had been begging me to meet her for a while and was always acting jealous that maybe I had other girls... One day, she just deletes her LINE and her Thaifriendly, making no effort to give me other contact details. This is someone I spend hours and hours of my life getting to know and developing a friendship with. She doesn't know I have her Facebook, so I know she is still alive and well. Not even worth reaching out to her and asking what happened. Disappearing was obviously intentional...



Another girl I had been seeing was a total stunner... a solid 10 and amazing in bed. The kind of girl that I would've stopped mongering for. She told me that she liked me, and I was so into this girl that I went for the girlfriend proposition. She said yes, she would be my girlfriend and sent some lovey dovey stickers. Next day? She randomly blocked me. I tracked her down on Facebook to find out that she had a boyfriend for several months already and was posting all this drama about him. So I guess trying to finagle us both was too difficult for her, but the fact that she made me fall for her and then just decided that the best solutions is just to block me randomly? I just don't get it... Zero fucks given for how I might feel about it.



And that's almost always how it goes with Thai girls. When they're finished with you, you cease to exist to them. It might be the one thing that I really miss about western girls. With western girls, they usually offer some explanation if anything goes sour. I can't think of any time that a western girl was claiming her love for me one day and the next day had blocked me when nothing happened in between. They might start replying slow or something or say that they met someone, but they don't just suddenly disregard you as a human being with feelings if for whatever reason things don't work out.



That's normal girls too. I wouldn't be able to touch on the heartless shit that working girls do. Probably the shadiest thing that ever happened was a few years ago when I was in a bar and called a drink slut over to sit with me. After a couple drinks, I asked to barfine her and she said she has never gone with customers and doesn't barfine. But then she proposed that I give her my LINE and she will meet me on the weekend. The girl was hot, so I fell for it and gave her my line. She then proceeds to ask me for more drinks which I obliged, and when I was getting up to leave she told me "You have to message me every day and night if you want me to go to your room," with a pouty face. I laughed and said okay, and then she frowned and asked for a tip. I figured I was going to be meeting this chick for free later, so what's a tip gonna hurt? I think I gave her 200-300 baht. Well, right after I left that bar that night, she sent me one sticker and then blocked me. Okay--I get that I was tricked, but how hard would it have been to entertain me with a couple LINE messages for a day or two so that I didn't feel like a complete jackass after I spent thousands of baht on her? The cunt still works at the same bar pulling the same hustle on everyone...
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07-25-2024, 04:05 PM
I've had the random blocking thing before as well, almost always when the girl is trying to juggle a problem boyfriend with a new romantic interest. It is pretty heartless, especially when it happens with no explanation and no warning. In fact, on one occasion this so pissed me off that I went and sought her out in person and demanded an explanation. It would be so much easier to just send an explanatory note and say "hey, we can't text each other anymore". Most guys are reasonable and would comply, but for some reason the Thai women just don't seem to think in this way.



I've seen some Thai girls completely cut an entire group of friends and people off: new phone number, new LINE ID and new Facebook. From one day to the next. So it's not something that happens only in Thai-Foreigner interactions, but also amongst themselves. The unfortunate consequence is that it's made me less emotionally trusting of Thai women.
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07-25-2024, 04:05 PM
I kinda get it man. I'll trade you a story. I wasted nearly months of chit chat with a couple of TF girls who keep escalating the situation even while we only had a few actual dates. I could always see thru the BS because of the language barrier, the set-up and silly ruse was always obvious. Now these weren't girls from bars. No. They were ladies with regular day jobs. One of which, let's call her Honey, I knew if I banged her she'd try and get me on the dangle. She wanted to be married yesterday. Fuck that shit. In the end she blocked me out of the blue and I was so utterly relived when she did.
Then a few months ago another TF girl who i'd had dates with started getting all hot and heavy, asking me to be her BF and get her out here to Oz to study, I checked that shit immediately, after which she blocked me on Line without warning or explanation. Again I felt relived. And for the trifecta had another girl stop talking to me around Valentines day. She presented herself as a normal working girl. Just like the previous two. But I still wonder if maybe, just maybe, she was a working girl who split her time in Pattaya.

It's cold and while I don't understand the culture or their circumstances, or even their desperation, for me there was the feeling of some scheming sense at work that was always ticking away. Maybe that's the streetwise sensitivity of the hustle. What I do recognize is that I am a waste of time. I am Thai. I don't plan on being Thai so dating was pretty much for the experience and selfish stupid stupid hope that it might lead towards something else. Geez what the fuck was I thinking.
Anyway I dunno if I'll waste time with dates while visiting the kingdom. I don't live there like you do, so for me the scene is the way to go.


Good luck with it mate.
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07-25-2024, 04:05 PM
I might have been posted on one of those silly Thagirlswholikefarang Facebook groups. In fact, I think it's highly unlikely that I haven't been posted on one of those groups at least once by now.



But the girls certainly have no idea who I am on this board, and I can't imagine that the non-p4p girls figured out I've p4p. Haven't gotten caught yet to my knowledge. Wink knock on wood
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07-25-2024, 04:06 PM
Based on my own experience... Thai girls can be interested on you really quick... But i guess they can also lose the interest way too quickly...

Specially younger girls, their attention rate is really low...



For example recently in a club a Thai good-girl was interested on me, but I was not interested on her.... In the end of the night she was already kissing another random guy lol....
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