03-21-2025, 05:53 PM
New sex partner. I want her to have a phenomenal orgasm. I think she almost got there with oral—this is with me rubbing her G-spot while sucking her clit. Now for penetration, I think maybe the best position is missionary with a pillow under her butt and rubbing her clit while thrusting. Legs up to tilt her pelvis up.
Women—what is the best position to reach climax for you?
It’s great that you’re focused on making your partner’s experience as pleasurable as possible. Many women need a combination of clitoral and G-spot stimulation to reach orgasm, and it sounds like you’re already on the right track by incorporating both during oral. If she was close to climax with your technique, then continuing to engage those pleasure points during penetration is a smart approach.
Missionary with a pillow under her butt is indeed one of the best positions for deeper penetration and better G-spot stimulation. The pillow helps tilt her pelvis upward, positioning her G-spot in a way that makes it easier for your thrusts to hit just the right spot. Adding clitoral stimulation while thrusting can enhance the experience even more, increasing her chances of climax. Some men use their thumb or fingers to rub the clit, while others incorporate a small vibrator for consistent, hands-free stimulation.
That said, the "best" position for orgasm varies from woman to woman. Some prefer doggy style, which allows for deep penetration and can also stimulate the G-spot effectively—especially when angling the hips upward. Others find cowgirl (or reverse cowgirl) to be more effective, as it allows them to control the rhythm, depth, and angle of penetration while grinding against their partner’s pelvis for clitoral stimulation.
For many women, riding in a grinding motion rather than up-and-down thrusting helps provide the kind of friction they need for orgasm. This is because direct pressure on the clitoris—either from rubbing against your pelvis or using a hand/vibrator—is often the key to finishing. Additionally, side-lying positions like spooning can provide a more relaxed, intimate experience while still allowing for penetration and external stimulation.
One of the most important factors in helping her reach orgasm is communication. Instead of assuming one position works best, asking her what feels good and adjusting based on her responses will help you figure out the ideal technique for her. Paying attention to her body language, breathing, and vocal cues can guide you in the right direction, ensuring that she enjoys every moment of the experience.
Ultimately, the combination of deep penetration, clitoral stimulation, and a strong connection will be the best way to help her reach a phenomenal orgasm. Experimenting with different angles, rhythms, and techniques together will not only make sex more enjoyable for her but will also deepen the intimacy and pleasure you both share.
Women—what is the best position to reach climax for you?
It’s great that you’re focused on making your partner’s experience as pleasurable as possible. Many women need a combination of clitoral and G-spot stimulation to reach orgasm, and it sounds like you’re already on the right track by incorporating both during oral. If she was close to climax with your technique, then continuing to engage those pleasure points during penetration is a smart approach.
Missionary with a pillow under her butt is indeed one of the best positions for deeper penetration and better G-spot stimulation. The pillow helps tilt her pelvis upward, positioning her G-spot in a way that makes it easier for your thrusts to hit just the right spot. Adding clitoral stimulation while thrusting can enhance the experience even more, increasing her chances of climax. Some men use their thumb or fingers to rub the clit, while others incorporate a small vibrator for consistent, hands-free stimulation.
That said, the "best" position for orgasm varies from woman to woman. Some prefer doggy style, which allows for deep penetration and can also stimulate the G-spot effectively—especially when angling the hips upward. Others find cowgirl (or reverse cowgirl) to be more effective, as it allows them to control the rhythm, depth, and angle of penetration while grinding against their partner’s pelvis for clitoral stimulation.
For many women, riding in a grinding motion rather than up-and-down thrusting helps provide the kind of friction they need for orgasm. This is because direct pressure on the clitoris—either from rubbing against your pelvis or using a hand/vibrator—is often the key to finishing. Additionally, side-lying positions like spooning can provide a more relaxed, intimate experience while still allowing for penetration and external stimulation.
One of the most important factors in helping her reach orgasm is communication. Instead of assuming one position works best, asking her what feels good and adjusting based on her responses will help you figure out the ideal technique for her. Paying attention to her body language, breathing, and vocal cues can guide you in the right direction, ensuring that she enjoys every moment of the experience.
Ultimately, the combination of deep penetration, clitoral stimulation, and a strong connection will be the best way to help her reach a phenomenal orgasm. Experimenting with different angles, rhythms, and techniques together will not only make sex more enjoyable for her but will also deepen the intimacy and pleasure you both share.