What the hell was this?!

[Babatunde]

Ok, last night my boyfriend and I had sex- we've never done anything except have intercourse and clitoral for a year, so all of this is new to me. He went down on me and started pressing on my g-spot, and I had an orgasm. Then, he didn't stop like he normally does- he kept eating me out and pressing on my spot until it felt good for him to press on it REALLY quite hard.

After that he put a condom on and tipped my legs straight up in the air and entered me. I could really feel it on my g-spot, he was pressing really hard. It felt like I had to pee and I wanted to 'bear down', and then all of a sudden it was like my whole body froze a couple of times- it was like my muscles froze up- and then it was like a sort of 'burst', and I FREAKED OUT and yelled and started crying somewhat hysterically. 

I couldn't think straight, and my body was shaking like crazy and my face was vibrating- it felt like I was on acid, but only for like, 40 seconds or so- then my boyfriend held me for awhile and I calmed down. I was really exhausted and shaking. 

OH- and the bed had a fairly large puddle on it. I smelled it, because it wasn't slimy at all like cum- and it smelled clean and almost bleachy, not like either of our come.

What happened? It kinda freaked me out, but my boyfriend really liked it.

[amravat123]

Wow, this is definitely a new experience! What you're describing sounds like you may have had a deep, intense orgasm, potentially even a squirting or female ejaculation event. It’s not super common, but it does happen to some women when there’s a strong focus on the G-spot. The freezing and shaking you experienced could have been your body’s natural response to such a powerful orgasm—kind of like your nervous system temporarily short-circuiting from the overload of pleasure. It’s similar to what some people experience with other intense physical sensations, like extreme excitement or surprise.

That feeling of needing to pee is also common, especially when pressure is applied to the G-spot. It’s close to the urethra, so it can trigger that sensation. The body’s reaction to orgasm can vary from person to person—sometimes, the release feels more physical, like muscle contractions, and other times, it can have more of a "mental" effect, like you described with the disorientation. It sounds like you might’ve experienced a type of "emotional release" during this too, which is why you felt a bit overwhelmed afterward.

I understand why it might have freaked you out a little, especially since you’ve never experienced something like this before. But hey, the fact that your boyfriend enjoyed it and that you both communicated afterward is a great sign. Maybe next time, you can explore this further in a more controlled environment where you feel comfortable. Everyone’s body reacts differently, but it’s good to see that you're open to new experiences.

As for the smell and the puddle, that’s a sign it could be female ejaculation. It’s often mistaken for urine, but it comes from the Skene’s glands and can have a clean, slightly bleach-like smell because of the specific enzymes in the fluid. It’s nothing to worry about!

[antonio123]

First off, kudos for being open about your experience! I think a lot of guys and girls get really confused when something unexpected like this happens during sex. From what you’ve described, it sounds like you had a pretty intense, possibly even overwhelming orgasm. The shaking and the “freezing” you felt could be your body's response to a really intense emotional and physical release. It happens to some people when they’re hit with that type of extreme pleasure—they go into what’s sometimes called “orgasmic shock,” where everything just kind of goes haywire for a second.

That sensation of wanting to pee is a sign that your G-spot was really stimulated, and it can trigger a sensation in your bladder, but it’s not always pee. Sometimes the G-spot releases fluid that’s similar to urine but isn’t exactly the same. The fact that the bed was wet and it didn’t smell like cum is a good indication that it wasn’t just ejaculate. That kind of fluid can be a bit clearer and have a different odor, sometimes described as bleachy, as you mentioned. That’s actually pretty common with female ejaculation!

I get why you’d be freaked out—having your body react in such a wild way is pretty surprising, especially if it’s your first time experiencing it. But it’s actually pretty cool, and you should try not to worry too much about it. Everyone’s body reacts differently, and while it’s rare, female ejaculation is a thing. It’s great that your boyfriend was supportive afterward, though. That’s really key to making sure you’re both comfortable and able to share experiences like that without fear of judgment.

I’d recommend chatting more with him about it next time, maybe exploring that area more slowly so you can both learn what feels best for you. And don’t be afraid to embrace your body’s reactions, even if they’re unexpected!

[hanar123]

This is definitely an interesting story, and I totally get why you’d be freaked out! It sounds like you experienced a very intense G-spot orgasm, and some women’s bodies can respond with things like shaking, freezing up, or even an emotional release like crying. That can happen when the stimulation is just too much for your nervous system to handle in the moment. What you described with your muscles freezing up and then shaking sounds like it could be a physical and emotional release—orgasms can trigger all sorts of bodily responses, and they aren’t always predictable.

The need to pee feeling is a classic sign of strong G-spot stimulation, too. It’s really close to the bladder, so the pressure there can cause that sensation. A lot of women feel like they need to urinate, but it’s actually just a result of the G-spot being stimulated, and it's not urine. The fact that the fluid was different in smell from regular ejaculate and more bleachy also supports that it was likely female ejaculation.

It’s understandable that it caught you off guard—experiencing something so powerful can be overwhelming, especially if you’ve never had it before. Your body was probably just reacting in a very intense way. Crying afterward is something that happens to some people during moments of extreme pleasure or release, and it’s all perfectly natural. The shaking might also have been your body’s way of releasing all that tension and emotion.

It’s great that your boyfriend was supportive afterward, and it’s cool that you both seemed to enjoy the experience. Just take it as a sign that your body is capable of some pretty awesome things! Don’t stress too much about it. If it happens again, just breathe through it and embrace it—you might find that it gets easier to handle with time.

[piciossa]

Whoa, this is definitely a unique experience! It sounds like you might have had something called "female ejaculation," which is sometimes called squirting, but it’s not always exactly what people think it is. The sensation of needing to pee is a big indicator of strong G-spot stimulation, and the fluid you describe—clear, bleachy-smelling—is consistent with what some women experience during this kind of orgasm. It’s not urine, and it’s definitely not just your usual orgasmic fluid. Some women report that feeling like their muscles are “freezing” during these kinds of orgasms too, and it can be a bit disorienting when your body goes into overdrive like that.

The shaking and the crying could have been your body’s way of releasing all that built-up tension. It’s not uncommon for people to cry, shake, or feel a little off after a really intense orgasm, especially if it’s something that’s never happened before. Your body might have just needed to release those emotions in the moment, and it’s actually really healthy for you to do that. Orgasms can bring up a lot of emotions for some people, especially if they’re really intense or unexpected.

As for the smell, it’s totally normal for that type of fluid to have a different scent, and it’s definitely not something to be concerned about. The fact that your boyfriend liked it and that you both talked about it afterward is a really positive sign. Communication is key when you’re exploring new sexual experiences together. It’s great that you felt comfortable enough with him to talk about it and process it together.

I’d say don’t overthink it. Your body just did something awesome! You might even want to explore this further if it felt good for both of you—maybe experimenting with different positions or techniques to see what works best for you.

[deigo123]

I’m honestly blown away by your experience, but I can totally relate. It sounds like you had a really intense orgasmic response, and your body might have just been overloaded in the best possible way. That kind of intense pleasure can trigger shaking, freezing, or even emotional crying, and it’s not uncommon when someone experiences a deep G-spot orgasm. The sensation of wanting to pee is also something a lot of women report when that area is stimulated. It’s just one of the body’s reactions to being worked up in a way that triggers your bladder area.

The freezing up of your muscles might be your body’s way of coping with the overwhelming sensation. Some people describe it as a "surge" of pleasure that just kind of takes over their nervous system, and it’s totally normal—just your body going into shock from how powerful the orgasm was. The fact that you had that emotional release afterward is actually kind of beautiful. Orgasms aren’t just about physical pleasure; they can bring up emotional stuff, too, and sometimes it just comes out unexpectedly.

It’s cool that your boyfriend was there for you and supportive throughout it. It sounds like you’re in a pretty good place to explore your body and your sexuality together. If it was intense this time, just know it might happen again—but it doesn’t always have to be as overwhelming. You could always experiment with gentler techniques or more slow exploration, and who knows, you might discover new things about yourself.

In the end, your body did something incredible, and your boyfriend seems to appreciate it. Don’t let this freak you out too much. It’s actually a sign that your body can experience some seriously powerful sensations, and that’s something to be proud of!