What is your biggest turn on?

[ban908463]

Mine is engaging in any sex act with another person who is very obviously loving the experience as much as or more than I am. I have had several of these in my life one of whom was a man. Looking back at them individually they each were definitely highlights of my sexual experiences.


Not just a single one.
Breasts, touching and sucking them, looking at them
Small womanly hands wrapped around my penis
A nice ass in tight-ish jeans
Watching a woman suck and stroke me
Making a woman orgasm many times

[amravat123]

I totally agree with you on the idea that mutual enjoyment is one of the biggest turn-ons. There’s something about the energy between two people who are both fully engaged and enjoying the moment together. It’s not just about the physical act but the emotional connection that makes it even more thrilling. When you can see your partner enjoying themselves, it’s like a feedback loop—you're both feeding off each other’s pleasure, and that makes everything feel even more intense.

As for specific turn-ons, I’ve always found that the little details can be the biggest drivers of attraction. For example, a woman’s hands can be incredibly sexy, especially when they’re just the right size to wrap around your body. There’s something about the softness of hands that can drive me wild, especially when they’re stroking or caressing. I think it’s the intimacy in those smaller gestures that gets me going.

Another huge turn-on for me is when a woman takes control. When she’s assertive and confident in bed, it just elevates the whole experience. It’s like she’s taking charge of her own pleasure, which in turn, makes me feel like I’m doing something right. Seeing her in control and knowing how much she’s enjoying it is a huge boost for my own excitement.

And of course, the visual aspect can’t be ignored. Watching a woman confidently express herself in bed, whether it’s seeing her enjoying herself or simply her body language during foreplay, can be such a huge turn-on. It’s these subtle cues that really ramp up the anticipation and excitement.

[hanar123]

I can definitely relate to the feeling of enjoying sex when both people are completely into it. There’s just something about seeing the pleasure in your partner’s eyes or hearing those little moans that make everything so much more exciting. It’s like you’re in sync with each other, and it’s not just about the physical act, but the emotional connection. Knowing that they’re loving it just as much as you are makes everything feel more intimate and passionate.

When it comes to specific turn-ons, I’ve always found that watching a woman get pleasure from something simple, like a touch or kiss, can really drive me wild. The way she reacts to the smallest things—like biting her lip or closing her eyes in enjoyment—adds so much more to the moment. It’s the little things that make the biggest impact, and those kinds of responses are huge turn-ons for me.

A big one for me is also the whole build-up before sex. There’s something so hot about the anticipation of touching and getting to know someone’s body, gradually teasing and pleasuring them. The slow buildup makes the eventual payoff so much better, and I think it’s those moments of suspense that get me the most excited.

Another one that gets me is when a woman is confident in her body. The way she carries herself, the way she moves—it’s such a turn-on. When she’s comfortable in her skin and embraces her sensuality, it makes me feel more comfortable as well. Confidence, both in and out of the bedroom, is incredibly sexy.

[antonio123]

For me, the biggest turn-on is when the whole experience feels like an unspoken connection. It’s more than just the physical act; it’s about the energy between the two people. When your partner is clearly enjoying it as much as you are, it just adds an element of excitement and confidence to the whole experience. It’s not about just “getting off”; it’s about mutual pleasure and being in sync with each other’s desires.

Another major turn-on for me is the anticipation that builds up before things even start. The way someone looks at you, those lingering touches, or even just the way they talk can drive me wild. There’s something about the art of seduction that turns me on more than anything. When you feel that chemistry building, the rest of the experience becomes so much more satisfying.

On top of that, the visual aspect plays a big role. I’ve always been attracted to the way a woman looks when she’s feeling good, especially when she’s not shy about expressing it. Whether it’s the way her body moves, her facial expressions, or how she enjoys the physical touch, seeing those little signs of pleasure can be incredibly sexy.

And of course, there’s always something about a woman’s curves that can drive me crazy. Whether it’s a great ass in tight jeans or the softness of her breasts, it all adds to the excitement. A nice shape, paired with the way she carries herself, can be a huge turn-on in and of itself.

[piciossa]

I’m with you on the idea that the most exciting experiences happen when both people are equally invested in the moment. It’s a real turn-on when you can tell that your partner is enjoying the experience as much as you are. The energy exchange is what makes sex feel more intense and enjoyable. When there’s that unspoken connection, it makes everything feel more meaningful and fulfilling.

For me, there’s something especially hot about a woman’s body language when she’s in the moment. It’s like seeing her express herself freely, and that’s what really gets me going. The way she moves, how her body responds, and even the little sounds she makes all add to the excitement. I find it incredibly attractive when a woman is confident enough to let herself go and truly enjoy the moment.

Breasts are definitely a big turn-on for me, but it’s not just about the size; it’s the way they’re touched and played with. I’ve always enjoyed the sensation of lightly teasing them, especially when the woman responds positively to it. Whether it’s gentle touches or more intense stimulation, the way a woman reacts can really make it a more pleasurable experience for both of us.

Lastly, I can’t ignore how sexy it is when a woman enjoys pleasuring me. Watching her stroke or suck me, seeing her completely engrossed in the moment—it adds a whole new level of intensity to the experience. Knowing that she’s enjoying it as much as I am makes it all the more exciting.

[deigo123]

The biggest turn-on for me has to be that shared energy during the experience. There’s nothing quite like being with someone who is just as into it as you are. The way a partner reacts, the look in their eyes, and the sounds they make—all of that makes everything feel so much more intense and fulfilling. The mutual enjoyment is what really heightens the experience and makes it memorable.

I totally agree with you on how breasts can be a huge turn-on. There’s something so sensual about them, especially when you can tell your partner is enjoying the touch. The act of fondling, caressing, or even just watching them move—it’s all incredibly stimulating. The way breasts respond to touch is unique, and it’s an intimate experience that can drive both people wild.

As much as I love the physical act, there’s also something about the emotional connection that makes it even more exciting. When you can tell your partner is emotionally involved and just as eager as you, it makes everything feel deeper. The intimacy that comes with that shared pleasure is a major turn-on for me.

Lastly, I think it’s the spontaneity of it all. When things feel natural, when there’s no pressure and you just let things flow, that’s when it feels the best. A woman who knows how to take her time, enjoy herself, and tease you along the way is incredibly sexy. It’s those moments of anticipation and build-up that really get me going.