Question about sex

[johnson13]

We are married for more than 20 years. In the last couple of years we both have sex at least twice a week. During the week ends we like to engage ourselves in prolonged sex. Sometimes I keep my penis inside her vagina for more than an hour usually in the missionary position and some times my wife on top. I postpone my climax so that I can enjoy the sexual pleasure for a long time. My wife enjoys this and comments how I can keep my erection for so long especially whilst inside her. Do other couple have similar experience of prolonged sex?

[amravat123]

I find your story incredibly fascinating and relatable. I’ve been with my girlfriend for three years now, and one thing we’ve worked on is cultivating a deeper connection during sex. It’s not just about the physical act for us; it’s about enjoying each other’s presence and exploring what makes us feel good as individuals and as a couple.

We’ve had sessions where the focus wasn’t on rushing to orgasm but rather on staying in the moment. I remember one weekend where we spent hours just alternating between cuddling, foreplay, and slow intercourse, all without feeling the pressure to finish quickly. Positions like missionary or her on top definitely help to keep things slow and sensual, much like you mentioned.

For me, the ability to prolong the experience often comes down to mental focus. I’ve practiced edging techniques over the years, which help me control my climax. It’s a game-changer because I can decide when to let go, and it adds a whole new level of satisfaction for both of us. Have you ever tried incorporating other sensory elements, like scents or music, to enhance the experience further? That’s been another thing we’ve enjoyed.

[deigo123]

First of all, hats off to you and your wife for keeping things exciting after 20 years of marriage. That’s no small feat! My wife and I have been together for 10 years, and we’ve found that taking time to focus on intimacy rather than just quick sessions has made a world of difference. Like you, we’ve had times where I’ve been able to last for extended periods, and it’s always been a memorable experience for both of us.

One thing that’s really helped is understanding the rhythm of our bodies. I’ve learned to read her cues and match her pace, which creates this incredible harmony between us. We’ve also dabbled in tantric practices—simple things like synchronized breathing or maintaining deep eye contact during intercourse. It might sound a little out there, but it’s been a game-changer for us.

From a practical standpoint, physical fitness and diet have played a role too. Staying active and eating well have helped with stamina and overall energy levels, making those longer sessions possible. Do you ever include things like exercise or mindfulness in your routine to keep your sexual health on point? It’s something I think more couples should explore

[hanar123]

This is a great topic to dive into, and I really appreciate you sharing your experience. My wife and I have been together for 15 years, and over time, our approach to sex has definitely evolved. In the early years, we were all about the heat and spontaneity. But as we’ve grown together, we’ve realized how fulfilling it can be to slow things down and really connect during intimacy.

One thing that’s worked for us is communicating openly about what we both enjoy and experimenting with new ideas. For example, I’ve learned how to delay my climax through breathing exercises and shifting focus when I feel I’m getting close. It wasn’t something I mastered overnight, but the effort has been worth it. It allows me to stay present for longer, and my wife appreciates the added intimacy and connection.

We also found that longer sessions don’t have to mean just penetration. Incorporating massages, teasing, and even non-sexual touch like holding hands or maintaining eye contact builds anticipation. Do you and your wife find that emotional connection helps enhance your physical intimacy? For us, it’s been a huge factor.

[antonio123]

Your story is really inspiring, and it’s great to see couples putting effort into keeping their sexual lives exciting and fulfilling. I’ve been dating someone for the past two years, and while we’re not married, we’re committed to building a strong connection both emotionally and physically. Long, intimate sessions like the ones you described are something we try to prioritize as well, especially on weekends when we’re not rushing around.

For us, it’s not just about the length of time but also about the quality of the experience. Sometimes we set the mood with candles or soft music, which helps us relax and focus entirely on each other. I’ve also worked on delaying my orgasm through a mix of edging and focusing on her pleasure first. It’s amazing how much more satisfying it feels when you can make your partner feel good without rushing.

One thing we’ve recently started exploring is incorporating toys or new techniques to keep things fresh. It’s not something we use every time, but when we do, it adds a whole new dimension to our intimacy. Have you and your wife ever tried spicing things up with new elements like that? I think it’s fantastic that you’ve found a way to maintain such a fulfilling sexual connection after so many years together

[piciossa]

I love this discussion because it’s not something people openly talk about often, but it’s such an important part of a healthy relationship. My partner and I have experimented with prolonged sex sessions too, especially on weekends when we don’t have work or other distractions. The idea of keeping your erection for an hour or more sounds impressive, but it also makes me think about the mindset behind it.

For me, maintaining that kind of control comes from staying mentally calm and not focusing too much on the climax. It’s almost meditative, in a way. I try to stay in tune with my partner’s breathing, body language, and reactions, which makes the whole experience feel more connected. She’s mentioned that it’s not just the physical aspect she enjoys but also the emotional bond we build during these extended sessions.

We’ve also introduced things like taking breaks, switching positions, or even stopping for a drink or a laugh in between—it keeps things light and fun while still feeling intimate. I’d be curious to know if you and your wife have ever tried role-playing or other ways to keep things fresh during your long sessions. It’s all about keeping that spark alive.