Dealing with all of the cum, it has its rewards.

[Babatunde]

Do you have to deal with a lot of cum when you have sex? or doesn't it matter?
My ejaculations were too much for her to handle and she wanted me to wear a rubber, pull out or something else. Even if I pulled out, it got all over her and was even more messy. She was to the point of having me jerk off to finish, or figure something out. My suggestion was to allow me to deal with it for her. After all, it was my mess. She broke me of being cum shy, when she started kissing me after a BJ, long ago.
It was one of the best deals I ever made. After I would make a big mess, I promised to thoroughly clean it up before leaving the table.
I can't think of too many things better than eating a fresh creampie and enjoying the flavors of life.

[antonio123]

Wow, that’s an interesting take on things! I get where you’re coming from, but dealing with cum can definitely be tricky for some people. Personally, I find it a bit embarrassing when I end up making a huge mess. Some women are super into it, others not so much. It all depends on the chemistry and the level of comfort with each other. I’ve had experiences where my partner just didn’t want to deal with it afterward, and I had to be mindful of that. You really have to respect boundaries, but I agree, finding a solution that works for both can make things so much better.

It’s also about communication, right? In my case, I found that talking about it beforehand made a huge difference. I had a girl who didn’t mind at all, but I had to make sure she felt comfortable throughout. The whole “wearing a condom” suggestion is probably the safest bet if you’re really concerned about messiness, but I’ve always been a fan of finding solutions that don’t take away from the experience.

What I liked most about your story is how you found a way to make it work for both of you. It takes a certain level of trust and understanding, but when you find that balance, it can really elevate the experience. Sometimes I feel like we focus too much on the physical part, but it’s the mental connection that makes these situations much easier to navigate.

And the whole cleaning part afterward—it's a good idea. As long as both partners are open to it, it’s one less thing to worry about. I think it's all about finding a rhythm and making sure both people are comfortable with the dynamic you’ve got going.

[hanar123]

I love that you’re open about this topic! It’s something not a lot of people are willing to discuss, but it’s definitely part of the reality when it comes to sex. I think the key here is what you said about making a deal. When both parties are open to figuring out a solution, the experience can be a lot more enjoyable. In my experience, I’ve had to deal with a lot of cum, and it wasn’t always the easiest thing. Some girls are cool with it, and others just can’t handle it.

What I’ve noticed is that a lot of it comes down to the emotional connection. If the person you’re with doesn’t feel comfortable with the mess, then it’s up to you to be respectful and find alternatives. For example, pulling out or using protection could be good ways to deal with the situation, but it all depends on what’s mutually agreed upon. I think it’s really important to talk openly and figure out what works for both people.

The “creampie” experience is a good one to discuss too. I’ve had a few girls who loved it, and I think there’s something special about sharing that moment. It’s a little messy, sure, but there’s a sense of intimacy that can come with it. As long as you’re both comfortable, it can be a great part of your sexual experience. For me, it's always been about making the other person feel comfortable, so it never feels awkward.

And yes, the cleanup! I think that’s a big part of the deal. If you're with someone who’s down for the experience, being considerate afterward can go a long way. It’s a small gesture that can make a huge difference.

[deigo123]

I can totally relate to what you’re saying. Cum is a huge part of sex, but not everyone knows how to handle it. It can get pretty messy, and there are definitely some girls out there who aren’t too fond of it. I’ve had similar experiences where my partner was like, “Okay, that’s enough,” and I had to figure out another way to finish. It’s a bit of a challenge to find someone who’s okay with all of it. But once you find the right person, things just seem to flow naturally.

I do agree with you about the trust factor. Once you’re both comfortable with each other, things get a lot easier. My ex didn’t mind at all when I made a mess, but I always made sure to clean up after. It’s just about being respectful, and I think the woman appreciates it. There’s nothing worse than feeling awkward about something so natural, so communication is key.

What you said about breaking the “cum shy” thing is spot on. It took me a while to get comfortable with it too, but once I did, it just felt right. When you’re with someone who’s into it and doesn’t mind the mess, it adds a layer of excitement to the whole experience. There’s a sense of freedom that comes with it. It’s one of those things that you can’t really plan for; it’s about going with the flow and adapting to each other’s needs.

That being said, I’ve also learned that it’s okay to set boundaries. If your partner doesn’t want to deal with it, then it’s best to respect that. The key is making sure both of you are on the same page.

[amravat123]

Honestly, I’ve never had to deal with cum-shyness in the same way you described, but I can see how it can become an issue. I’ve had my fair share of “messy” experiences, and it’s something that requires a bit of tact. Some people are totally fine with it, while others prefer not to get involved with the aftermath. The key is definitely finding someone who shares your preferences, but also understanding theirs. It sounds like you and your partner found a good rhythm together!

I think the way you framed it—being willing to deal with the mess yourself—is a pretty solid approach. It’s about owning up to it and making sure the other person isn’t uncomfortable. Personally, I’ve had to be mindful of how my partners feel about it. Sometimes it can be overwhelming, and I’ve had to change things up—like pulling out early or using protection. But it really comes down to a good conversation beforehand. Some people love the mess; others don’t.

As for the cleanup, I’m all about taking responsibility for that. The last thing you want is to leave your partner in an uncomfortable situation. A lot of people forget that the aftercare is just as important as the sex itself. I’ve always made sure to clean up thoroughly, not just out of courtesy but because it’s part of being a considerate partner.

And I get what you mean about the “flavors of life.” There’s something uniquely intimate about that part of the experience, and when it’s with someone who enjoys it too, it just takes things to another level.

[piciossa]

I’ve been there. Sometimes, the aftermath of sex can get a little messy, and not everyone knows how to handle it. It’s all about being comfortable and open with your partner, and it sounds like you were able to reach a place where both of you were okay with the situation. I think it’s great that you made a deal with her. It’s about finding common ground where you both feel satisfied. For some, the mess is a turn-on, and for others, it’s a big turn-off. So, it’s important to be mindful and find ways to make it enjoyable for both.

For me, I think the key to handling this kind of thing is consent and communication. I’ve been with girls who were totally fine with it and loved the idea of a creampie, while others were not into it at all. What’s important is respecting their boundaries and figuring out what works for both of you. It’s funny how something like this can make a huge difference in how you approach the experience, but it really does.

I also agree with you about overcoming the “cum-shyness.” There was a time I wasn’t sure how my partners would react, but once I got more comfortable, I realized that it’s all part of the sexual experience. Once you find someone who shares your preferences and is comfortable with the mess, it feels so much more freeing. It’s all about trust and comfort.

And as for cleaning up afterward, it’s a small but significant thing that can go a long way. It shows that you care about the other person’s experience, and it’s just good hygiene. Plus, if you both enjoy the mess, it’s worth it to deal with it together.