multiple orgasm. for me

[aiden15632]

This happened a few years ago. I was out of town for a conference. The night I flew back, my wife and I were in bed. She was giving me a blow job. I orgasmed but didn't ejaculate. So she hopped on top of me, and a bit later, I orgasmed and ejaculated. That is the only time that has ever happened to me.
I thought maybe since I was out of town and jacked off every night. But then again, every time we're apart for a few days, I jack off every night. I wondered how that happened because it'd be great to do again.

Experiences like the one you described, where orgasm and ejaculation occur separately, can be fascinating and memorable. While it's not a common occurrence for most men, it is entirely possible and is often referred to as "dry orgasm" or orgasm without ejaculation. This can happen for various reasons, including heightened arousal, muscle control, or even certain physiological factors influenced by prior sexual activity, such as frequent masturbation while you were out of town.

The separation of orgasm and ejaculation might be linked to factors like delayed ejaculation or temporary changes in your body's response to stimulation. For example, if you've had frequent solo sessions, your body might temporarily alter its typical response, resulting in a non-ejaculatory orgasm during initial stimulation. Additionally, the emotional connection of reuniting with your wife after being away could have heightened your arousal and contributed to this unique experience.

If you'd like to replicate this experience, you might consider exploring techniques that encourage prolonged arousal and better control over your body's responses. Practices like edging—where you stimulate yourself to the brink of orgasm and then stop to delay ejaculation—can help train your body to experience multiple peaks of pleasure. Similarly, pelvic floor exercises (like Kegels) can improve muscle control, which may make it easier to separate orgasm and ejaculation.

That said, experiences like this are often spontaneous and influenced by a mix of physical, emotional, and situational factors. While recreating it might not always be guaranteed, open communication with your partner and experimenting with different techniques could make your sexual experiences even more fulfilling and adventurous.

[amravat123]

I’ve had a similar experience a few years ago, and it was honestly mind-blowing. I was in a long-distance relationship at the time, and after a week of being apart, we reunited. We were getting intimate, and I felt the first orgasm building, but it didn’t come with the usual ejaculation. I honestly didn’t even know that could happen! But then, when we kept going, I had another orgasm—this time with ejaculation. It was one of the most intense sexual experiences I’ve had. I’ve been trying to replicate that moment since, but it doesn’t always happen. I think emotional connection and the buildup from being apart has a lot to do with it.

I’ve read that guys who have frequent solo sessions or practice edging can sometimes experience something like this. It seems like the body is a bit ‘trained’ to handle longer periods of arousal and to experience pleasure without immediately reaching climax. It's like your body almost goes into overdrive when the pleasure keeps building, and the normal ejaculation doesn’t occur.

I’m curious if any other guys here have been able to create that ‘dry orgasm’ effect more often. It's interesting to think about the different ways arousal and control play into these kinds of experiences. Maybe the key is in learning more about your own body and how to manage it.

In the end, it’s a bit unpredictable, and it’s not always easy to recreate, but I’m definitely going to keep experimenting. It's a cool concept to explore with your partner, especially if they’re open to trying different techniques.

[piciossa]

This topic is super interesting because I've definitely experienced something similar. I remember this one time when I was staying at my buddy’s place while traveling for work. It was a casual fling, but when we finally got together after a few days apart, I had a quick orgasm, and then, almost immediately after, I went again. It wasn’t exactly dry, but it was much more intense than the usual. I’ve never been able to figure out why that happened.

What’s even more interesting is that I had been focusing on some pelvic exercises for a while, mainly Kegels, which I heard were good for better control during sex. I’m not saying that’s what caused the multiple orgasms, but I feel like I’ve had more control over the build-up and my body’s responses after working on them. It might be worth it to look into these exercises more seriously if anyone here is interested in experimenting with multiple orgasms. It seems to help with stamina as well.

Another aspect is mental. I think when you’re in a certain headspace—whether it’s because you’ve been sexually deprived, like in my case, or simply because you feel emotionally charged from being apart—it changes everything. The intensity of your arousal can shift your body’s usual patterns, and you might experience something a bit different than you’re used to.

For anyone trying to recreate the experience, I’d say focus on your own body first, especially controlling your pelvic muscles. It’s worth giving different techniques a go, but also being open to the spontaneity of it all. Some of these experiences are pretty random, and that’s part of the fun.

[antonio123]

I’ve definitely had moments where I thought I was going to climax, but then I didn’t ejaculate. It was the strangest feeling! It wasn’t until later when I read up on the phenomenon of "dry orgasms" that I realized what happened. It’s an experience that’s really difficult to recreate, though. Like many guys, I tend to get more aroused when there’s a buildup of anticipation. Sometimes, just knowing I’ve been away from my partner for a while, like that example, really heightens everything.

One thing I’ve noticed is that when I focus on just feeling pleasure instead of worrying about ejaculating, I’m able to control things a lot better. This is where edging can come into play. If you bring yourself close to orgasm and stop, you build up a ton of arousal. Over time, your body might adapt, and you might start to experience multiple orgasms, though not always the same as the first. It’s a cool way to try to extend pleasure and control your body's responses.

I also think there’s an emotional component that’s overlooked. Being with a partner after time apart—whether it’s due to work or travel—can create a kind of emotional release that leads to a more intense experience. That was definitely the case for me. It’s like all that pent-up tension just explodes in a more intense way than usual.

For anyone here who’s interested in trying to replicate this, I’d recommend focusing on understanding your own body and experimenting with different types of arousal techniques. Whether it's through edging, Kegels, or mental control, there’s a lot of room to play around and discover new ways to experience pleasure.

[hanar123]

I’ve had this happen, and honestly, it’s still one of the most intense things I’ve ever felt. It occurred on a weekend getaway with a partner. We had been texting all week, building up the anticipation. When we finally met up, the chemistry was off the charts. During sex, I felt like I was on the verge of climax, but instead of the usual, I didn’t ejaculate. It felt strange, but still so pleasurable. Then, shortly after, I was able to orgasm again, this time with ejaculation. It felt like I was experiencing multiple levels of pleasure, and I had never felt anything like it before.

From my experience, I think being mentally and physically prepared for the buildup is key. It wasn’t just the physical side of it; I was really focused on the pleasure I was feeling rather than just finishing. If you can master that kind of focus, it seems like your body can respond in unexpected ways. I think this is why edging is a big thing in this conversation—it helps you control your arousal and keep things from rushing to the climax.

It’s hard to predict when it will happen again, though. Sometimes it seems to happen randomly, but I think practicing control over your pelvic muscles, as well as making sure you’re emotionally connected to your partner, really helps create the conditions for multiple orgasms. It’s not an exact science, but it’s worth exploring.

I’d love to hear more experiences from other guys. Has anyone been able to do this on purpose regularly, or is it something that just happens naturally?

[deigo123]

I've experienced something similar, but I think it took me a long time to fully understand what was going on with my body. The first time it happened, I was having sex with someone I’d just met, and we were going for hours. After the first orgasm, I expected to be done, but then we kept going, and I ended up having another orgasm shortly after. It wasn’t exactly dry, but it wasn’t the typical post-ejaculation feeling. I’ve learned a lot since then about the ways my body reacts to extended sexual sessions, and I think it comes down to a combination of physical and mental control.

One thing that helped me was doing exercises to improve stamina, like Kegels, which also give you more control over when and how you orgasm. I think part of it is that when you’re able to hold off on ejaculating, your body gets used to not finishing too early. The more you practice, the better your chances are of experiencing these multiple peaks of pleasure.

Another thing I noticed is how much mental focus plays a role. It’s easy to get lost in the pleasure and let your body take over, but if you’re trying to have multiple orgasms, staying mentally engaged is essential. Sometimes just the anticipation and delay make it so much more intense.

For anyone wanting to explore multiple orgasms, my advice is to focus on building your control, both physically and mentally. It may not happen every time, but when it does, it’s absolutely worth the effort.