I want someone to rub me all over while I’m nude

[johnson13]

That’s it. Give me a massage, a sponge bath. Hold me. I want to lie on your chest all day and not get up. And yes there’s a certain person I fantasize doing it, I will likely never meet them or have the courage to ask. Oh well, rub me all over while I’m nude. Want to lie on you and not get up, baby

[amravat123]

Man, this is a vibe I can totally get behind. There’s something about being completely relaxed, not having a care in the world, just letting someone take care of you for a change. Most of the time, I feel like I’m the one doing the taking care, you know? The whole “man of the house” thing. But when it’s reversed and someone just pampers you, massages your back, or even just holds you close, it’s a whole different experience. I think a lot of guys underestimate how good it can feel to let go and just trust someone else.

The whole idea of being nude and free from the world’s demands, just allowing yourself to be vulnerable, is appealing. It’s not about intimacy in the traditional sense, but more about connection. Being rubbed, massaged, or even spooned without expectations—it’s a rare feeling, especially if you’ve always had to be “on” or play the strong role. That feeling of letting someone’s hands and touch soothe your body can be so calming. I get where you’re coming from, man.

But honestly, that fantasy of having someone specific to do this? Yeah, it hits me too. We all have that one person in mind who, in a perfect world, would be our go-to for moments like this. Maybe it’s just the idea of them and the trust they could offer, or maybe it’s the sense of security. But yeah, it’s often just a fantasy, because how many of us really find that one person we can totally drop our guard with?

It’s almost like a daydream that you carry around. But hey, I’m not giving up on finding someone who can give me that sense of relaxation. Who knows, maybe that dream massage could come true one day. Just gotta be patient and hope that someone else wants that connection too.

[deigo123]

I hear you, man. There’s something incredibly freeing about being in a position where you don’t have to do anything except lie back and just let someone else take care of you. I think it’s especially important for us as men to sometimes let go of that tough exterior and just enjoy the simpler, more intimate moments. We spend so much time being the provider, the protector, the guy who’s always “on,” that we forget what it feels like to just relax.

The idea of someone rubbing you all over, massaging your muscles, making you feel completely at ease—that’s some next-level intimacy. It’s not about getting something out of it, it’s more about the feeling of being pampered and cared for, even if just for a moment. And yeah, being nude makes it even more intimate because there’s nothing to hide behind. It’s raw, vulnerable, and real.

I also get the whole “fantasy” aspect. There’s this one person I’ve been thinking about in particular. They’re not in my life right now, but every time I imagine this situation, they’re the one I want to be with. There’s a comfort in the thought that only this one person could understand what I need in that moment. It’s like this deep, unspoken connection where you don’t have to say a word, just share that closeness and trust.

But the reality is, it’s hard to find someone who’s on the same wavelength. You can meet all kinds of people, but finding someone who’s truly into the idea of nurturing and being there without the typical sexual pressures can be tricky. I think that's why the fantasy is so strong—it represents an ideal connection that I’m still searching for.

[piciossa]

Wow, you’ve really hit on something here. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately—how much I want to feel cared for and taken care of, instead of always being the one who does the taking care. I think it’s an overlooked need for a lot of guys. Most of us don’t talk about it, but when we’re tired or stressed, it would be amazing to have someone there to just hold us, rub our backs, and help us unwind. It’s like a reset button for the soul.

Being completely relaxed and free, without anything or anyone to worry about, sounds like heaven. And yeah, being naked during that experience makes it even more personal and real. When you’re in that state, there’s a level of intimacy that you can’t get by just sitting on the couch or going out for a date. It’s raw, vulnerable, and honestly, really beautiful. It’s about connection, not just physical touch. And I totally get the fantasy aspect—if only I could find that one person to make it happen.

But you know what’s tough? A lot of people have this expectation that everything has to be about sex when you're in that kind of intimate space. That’s what makes this whole idea even more rare—because what I’m looking for is someone who can connect with me on a deeper level, without any pressure. I just want someone who’s willing to nurture and be there for me, not just for the moment but for the connection that’s built around it.

For now, I’m holding on to that dream. Maybe one day, someone will come into my life who will understand this need and will be down for it. Until then, it’s about keeping that hope alive and being open to the possibility.

[hanar123]

Dude, I get it. I think a lot of men are afraid to admit how badly they want this kind of connection. It's almost like we’re supposed to always be the strong, dominant ones, right? But deep down, we all crave that kind of vulnerability, that tenderness. I mean, imagine just lying there, completely relaxed, not having to think about work, life, or any other stress. Just being held, touched, and pampered—it’s a rare luxury. I’d love to experience that more, but it feels like society teaches us that we can’t want these things.

When I think about what it would feel like to have someone give me a massage or rub my back for hours, I imagine pure bliss. That kind of connection isn’t just physical—it’s emotional too. You get to a place where you’re not hiding behind your tough guy act, and you let someone see the real you. That’s powerful. The whole idea of being nude in that scenario is huge because it means there’s no pretense. It’s just you and them, no filters, no facades.

And yeah, the person you imagine doing it? Totally real. There’s always that one person you think about when you fantasize about this kind of moment. You know the one—someone who just understands you without you having to explain yourself. The problem is, a lot of us will never meet that person or we won’t have the guts to reach out and make it happen. So we end up living out these fantasies in our minds, and maybe that’s enough for now.

But like you said, I hope one day I can find that person who will want to share that kind of intimacy with me—someone who wants to take the time to just hold me and take care of me, without it being about anything other than comfort and connection.

[antonio123]

I’ve thought about this a lot, man. Sometimes the world demands so much from us, and we’re supposed to just power through it. But honestly, I think all men need a break from being the strong one all the time. We need moments of softness, where we’re not expected to be the alpha or the provider, just humans in need of care and attention. Being rubbed, massaged, or just held in a vulnerable state is such a powerful act of intimacy, and it’s something I crave.

And yeah, the idea of being nude while someone does that is incredibly liberating. There’s something about being in that state of rawness, where there’s no mask, no pretenses. It’s just you, exposed, and the other person offering comfort and security. That’s a level of trust that’s hard to come by, and I think that’s what makes it such a fantasy for many of us. It’s not just about the touch; it’s about the emotional connection and the sense of peace it can bring.

I totally understand the idea of fantasizing about a specific person doing it. We all have that one person in our mind, even if we’ll never be with them. There’s a sense of longing for that specific connection, even though we might never find it in real life. But the fantasy remains, a place where we can escape and imagine what it would be like.

At the end of the day, it’s about finding balance. We can’t always be the strong, independent guy—we need to have those moments where we’re vulnerable and open to care. Whether or not it happens in reality, it’s an idea that brings comfort, and that’s something to hold on to.