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Male Multiple Orgasms - hilululu - 01-27-2025
Last night I was having sex with my girlfriend, and after only a couple of minutes, I felt like I was going to cum. I slowed way down until right before orgasm and then just stopped. I had a really intense orgasm (she felt my contractions easily) but no ejaculation. My arousal had waned only slightly, and I kept going, and about five minutes later, I orgasmed and ejaculated like normal. Has anyone else had such an experience? This has happened to me a handful of times, but I want to understand why and how to have control over it.
This phenomenon is commonly referred to as a "dry orgasm" and can be part of what's known as male multiple orgasms. While ejaculation and orgasm typically happen together for most men, they are actually two separate processes. Orgasms involve rhythmic muscle contractions and a surge of pleasure, while ejaculation is the physical release of semen. It’s entirely possible for one to occur without the other, as you experienced.
What you describe—slowing down stimulation and stopping right before climax—might be inadvertently helping you achieve this. By pausing before the point of no return (often called the "ejaculatory inevitability"), your body might still trigger the muscular contractions of orgasm but without ejecting semen. This could also explain why your arousal level only slightly decreased, allowing you to continue and later experience a second, more typical orgasm with ejaculation.
Some men actively train to achieve this type of orgasm through practices like edging or tantric techniques. These methods focus on controlling arousal levels and separating orgasm from ejaculation. While most resources about male multiple orgasms discuss squeezing the PC (pubococcygeus) muscle to prevent ejaculation, your approach—pausing stimulation without squeezing—seems to work differently. It may suggest that your body has a natural sensitivity to such pauses, allowing the contractions of orgasm without the ejaculatory response.
This ability can potentially be developed further with practice if you're interested. Techniques like edging, where you repeatedly bring yourself close to orgasm and then back off before climaxing, can help you better control the timing of your orgasm and explore similar sensations. Additionally, focusing on breathing techniques and relaxing your body during intimacy might enhance your control.
It’s also worth noting that experiences like this can vary based on factors like stress, arousal levels, or even hormonal fluctuations. While it’s not something all men experience frequently, it’s not necessarily unusual. If it’s something you want to explore further, experimenting with pacing, stimulation levels, and even different positions could give you a better understanding of what triggers it for you.
Ultimately, this kind of exploration can add a new dimension to your sexual experiences and deepen the connection between you and your partner. Open communication with her about your experiences and intentions can also help create an environment where you can experiment and enjoy the process together.
If you’re curious about the mechanics or want to dive deeper into the science of it, you might consider consulting a sexual health professional or researching male sexual response patterns. It’s a fascinating topic that highlights just how complex and unique human sexuality can be.
RE: Male Multiple Orgasms - hanar123 - 01-28-2025
This is super fascinating! I’ve experienced something similar but never really thought about it in depth until now. A few years ago, I started experimenting with edging, trying to last longer in bed, and during one session, I felt this incredibly intense sensation like an orgasm, but nothing came out. At first, I thought it was some sort of fluke or that I did something wrong, but then I realized my arousal barely dropped, and I was able to keep going like you described. I had no idea it was called a dry orgasm, though.
What’s really interesting is that it’s completely separate from ejaculation. I always assumed they had to happen together, but it seems like the body can break them apart under the right circumstances. The control aspect is what intrigues me the most. If you can learn to tap into this consistently, it could completely change the way you experience sex. It’s almost like your body’s resetting itself for a second go, and it feels even more satisfying.
I’ve also noticed that pacing plays a huge role. If you’re too rough or intense, it’s hard to pull back before hitting the point of no return. But if you slow things down and focus on the sensations, it feels like you can hover on that edge for longer. Pair that with deep breathing, and it’s like you’re rewiring how your body reacts to pleasure. It takes patience, but it’s worth it for the payoff.
I wonder if more guys are out there experiencing this without realizing what’s happening. It’s definitely not something you hear about in the locker room. I’d be curious to know if anyone here has tried other techniques, like tantric practices, to develop this ability even further.
RE: Male Multiple Orgasms - amravat123 - 01-28-2025
I first discovered male multiple orgasms by accident, too. I was younger and trying to last longer because I didn’t want to finish too quickly. I remember stopping just before climaxing, and I felt this wave of contractions with no ejaculation. At the time, I was confused but intrigued because I still felt the pleasure and stayed in the mood. It felt like I had discovered some kind of cheat code!
As I dug deeper into the subject, I learned about edging and started using it more during solo sessions to train myself. It’s not just about stopping stimulation, though. It’s about learning where your “point of no return” is and getting super familiar with it. Over time, I found that my control improved so much that I could choose when to let go and ejaculate. This made sex way more enjoyable for me and my partners because I could last longer and build up more intense climaxes.
I think this topic ties into a lot of the mental aspects of sex, too. Controlling arousal isn’t just physical—it’s psychological. You have to stay present and not get carried away by the moment, which is easier said than done. That’s why breathing techniques and focusing on your partner’s pleasure can be game-changers. When you’re not fixated on your own release, it feels like you have way more control.
For anyone interested, I’d recommend starting with edging during solo play to figure out your body’s limits. Once you’ve got the hang of it, you can bring it into your sex life. It’s honestly a game-changer for anyone who wants to level up their experiences.
RE: Male Multiple Orgasms - antonio123 - 01-28-2025
more men should be aware of. I started learning about male multiple orgasms a couple of years ago when I got into yoga and meditation. A lot of what I’ve read about tantric sex is connected to this idea of separating orgasm from ejaculation. At first, I thought it sounded too mystical or impossible, but as I practiced, I realized there’s some real science behind it.
One thing that helped me a lot was strengthening my PC muscles. These are the same muscles you use to stop yourself from peeing midstream. By doing kegels regularly, I found I had way more control over my orgasms. Combine that with edging and deep breathing, and I was able to experience dry orgasms like you described. What’s crazy is that they sometimes feel more intense than regular orgasms with ejaculation.
It’s also worth mentioning that this isn’t just about lasting longer in bed—it’s about connecting with your partner on a deeper level. When you’re not rushing to finish, you can focus more on their pleasure and really enjoy the journey. It turns sex into an experience instead of just an act. My girlfriend and I have both noticed how much more satisfying our intimacy has become since I started practicing this.
For guys curious about this, I’d recommend looking into tantric practices or even guided meditations for sexual energy. It might sound a bit out there, but once you try it, you’ll understand why it’s worth the effort.
RE: Male Multiple Orgasms - piciossa - 01-28-2025
This is such an eye-opener for me. I always thought orgasm and ejaculation were inseparable, but reading about your experience makes me realize there’s so much more to learn about how our bodies work. I’ve had moments during masturbation where I felt like I could hold off ejaculation, but I didn’t know you could actually orgasm without releasing anything. That’s mind-blowing.
The whole idea of edging makes a lot of sense. I’ve done it unintentionally before—trying to last longer—but I’ve never thought of it as a way to train myself to separate orgasm from ejaculation. It seems like something that would require a lot of practice, but the payoff sounds incredible. Just the idea of being able to orgasm multiple times in one session without losing arousal is enough to motivate me to try it.
I’ve read that some cultures have been practicing these techniques for centuries, particularly in Eastern traditions. It’s crazy how we’re only just starting to catch on to these methods in the West. There’s definitely a mental component to it, too, like staying relaxed and not letting your mind get too caught up in the intensity of the moment.
This has inspired me to dive deeper into the topic and experiment more. If anyone has tips on how to get started—especially for beginners—I’d love to hear them. It sounds like this could be a total game-changer for sexual health and performance.
RE: Male Multiple Orgasms - deigo123 - 01-28-2025
I can’t believe how many guys here are talking about male multiple orgasms—I thought I was the only one interested in this! I had a similar experience when I was younger. I was experimenting with edging and noticed that if I slowed down just before climax, I could still feel this crazy intense sensation without ejaculating. At first, I thought it was a fluke, but it kept happening when I tried it again.
What’s wild is how much this can improve your overall sexual experience. For me, it’s been about more than just having multiple orgasms. It’s made me way more aware of my body and what feels good. I think it also helped me build better stamina and control, which my partners have definitely appreciated.
One thing I’ve found helpful is focusing on my breathing during sex. When you’re close to climax, it’s easy to tense up and lose control, but if you take deep breaths and stay calm, you can ride that wave without going over the edge. It’s like learning to surf your own arousal. It takes practice, but it’s so worth it once you get the hang of it.
For any guy thinking about giving this a try, I’d say start slow and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Experiment during solo sessions to see what works for you, and then bring it into your sex life when you’re ready. Trust me, your partner will thank you for it!