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What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship. - daniel74 - 12-28-2024
What would you do to keep your sex life active in a relationship?
Sexual role play with your partner (yes, no, why?)
Sexual role play outside relationship with same gender (yes,no,why?)
Sexual role play outside relationship with opposite gender (yes,no,why?)
Oral sex with partner (yes,no,why?)
Watching your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationships same gender (yes,no, why?)
Watch your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender (yes, no, why?)
Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship same gender (yes, no, why?)
Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender (yes, no, why?)
Watch your partner exhibit themselves to other’s (Yes, No, why?)
Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the same gender (yes, no, why?)
Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the opposite gender (yes, no, why?)
Exhibit yourself to other’s for your partner (Yes, no, why?)
Use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)
Watch someone of the same gender use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)
Watch someone of the opposite gender use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)
Have someone of the same gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you (yes, no, why?)
Have someone of the opposite gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you (yes, no, why?)
Explore your submissive sexual side with your partner (yes, no, why?)
Explore your dominant sexual side with your partner (yes, no, why?)
Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (yes, no, why?)
Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (yes, no, why?)
Watch your partner explore their dominant sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (yes, no, why?)
Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (yes, no, why?)
If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) (yes, no, why?)
If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) (yes, no, why?)
RE: What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship. - amravat123 - 12-28-2024
Keeping the sex life alive in a long-term relationship is definitely a challenge, but I think communication and a willingness to experiment are key. For me, it’s all about staying open to new experiences with my partner. Sexual role play, for example, is something that can really spice things up. It allows you to explore different dynamics and let go of the everyday routine. I personally love the idea of role-playing different scenarios with my partner because it adds a layer of excitement and fun. We’ve tried a few different roles, and it’s helped us feel more connected in a playful, intimate way. Plus, it’s a way to explore fantasies without the pressure of it being too serious or awkward.
One thing that I think is important is mutual consent—both partners need to be comfortable with whatever activities you’re exploring. I think oral sex is another great way to keep things alive. It’s intimate, it doesn’t require a lot of preparation, and it’s something we both enjoy. I think the act of giving and receiving oral sex strengthens the bond between us, and it’s often a great way to relieve stress and build anticipation for more. It’s about the connection as much as it is about the physical pleasure, which is why I’m all in for it in a healthy relationship.
I’ve also been in situations where my partner and I discussed exploring outside the relationship, whether it’s through watching or being a part of a third-party interaction. For me, as long as there’s trust, transparency, and a clear understanding of boundaries, it can add a new dynamic to the relationship. Some couples thrive on that kind of exploration, but it’s not for everyone. Personally, I’ve never been interested in having penetrative sex with someone else outside the relationship, but I’m definitely open to hearing other people’s experiences. I think it depends on the level of comfort both partners have with each other and the relationship’s foundation.
The most important thing for me is never letting the spark die out by being open and communicative. If we stop talking about our desires, needs, or fantasies, that’s when things start to feel stale. It’s about staying engaged with each other both emotionally and physically.
RE: What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship. - antonio123 - 12-28-2024
Maintaining a healthy sex life in a long-term relationship is definitely a balancing act. I think one of the best ways to keep things fresh is by prioritizing intimacy and variety. It’s easy to fall into a routine, and while routine can be comforting, it can also make things feel a bit stale over time. One thing that’s worked for me is bringing new ideas into the mix, like sexual role play. It’s not for everyone, but when both partners are enthusiastic about it, it can really bring an element of fun and creativity into the relationship. I’ve tried role play a few times, and it’s definitely helped us break out of the usual patterns and try new things.
That being said, I think maintaining clear boundaries is essential. Some people are into watching their partner with others or exploring kinks, and that’s totally valid, but I’m not personally comfortable with it. It’s not about judging others—it’s just about knowing what feels right for me and my relationship. For me, I think the idea of watching my partner with someone else doesn’t appeal to me. It might be a turn-on for others, but for me, I find more satisfaction in the connection we share when we’re just with each other. It’s about being honest with what you’re comfortable with and finding a balance.
Oral sex is definitely something I enjoy in my relationship, and I think it’s a great way to keep things alive. It’s not just about the pleasure, but the closeness it brings. Sometimes, the physical act of making your partner feel good without the pressure of penetrative sex is refreshing. Plus, it’s a great way to stay intimate in between other sexual activities. I think it’s important to never lose that connection, even when you’re busy or stressed, so incorporating small acts of affection, like oral sex, can make a big difference.
In the end, I think it’s all about communication and being willing to experiment within the boundaries that both partners agree on. Sex isn’t just about the physical acts—it’s about keeping the emotional and mental connection strong. As long as you and your partner are on the same page and open to exploring new things together, keeping the spark alive doesn’t have to be hard.
RE: What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship. - piciossa - 12-28-2024
To me, keeping the sex life alive is all about staying adventurous and open to new experiences together. In the beginning of a relationship, there’s a lot of excitement and passion, but over time, it can start to fade if you’re not careful. I think it’s important to always check in with each other about what’s working and what isn’t. For example, trying out sexual role play can be a fun way to reintroduce some excitement. It lets you step outside of the regular routines and explore different aspects of your personalities. I’ve done it with past partners, and it really helped create some memorable moments that broke up the monotony.
That being said, it’s also crucial to make sure that both partners are comfortable with the activities you're exploring. I’m open-minded, but I think that some things, like involving others in our relationship (whether same or opposite gender), wouldn’t sit well with me. Some people are into threesomes or watching their partner with someone else, but for me, I feel like it would create more complications than it’s worth. The trust between you and your partner is the foundation, and once that gets complicated, it’s hard to go back. I’d rather focus on deepening the connection with just my partner.
Oral sex is another great way to keep things fresh. I think it’s an intimate act that can be even more satisfying than penetrative sex sometimes. When you focus on pleasing your partner and being present in the moment, it creates a different kind of intimacy. Plus, it’s a great way to reconnect when life gets busy, and it’s something that doesn’t always require a huge amount of effort. It’s about taking time for each other, even if it’s just a quick moment to feel close.
So, keeping things alive really comes down to balance—being open to new things but also staying true to what works for both partners. Communication is key. As long as both partners are on the same page and willing to try new things together, you’ll keep that spark alive.
RE: What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship. - hanar123 - 12-28-2024
The way I see it, keeping sex alive in a relationship is about more than just the physical act; it’s about maintaining a strong emotional and mental connection with your partner. Sex can become routine if you’re not careful, and I think the best way to combat that is by staying curious about each other’s desires. Sexual role play is something I think can help bring a new level of excitement. It lets you both tap into different fantasies and explore parts of yourselves that you might not express otherwise. When both people are enthusiastic, it can lead to some really fun and fulfilling experiences.
In my relationship, oral sex plays a big role in keeping things alive. It’s intimate, pleasurable, and can be done without the pressure of needing to have penetrative sex every time. I think focusing on each other’s pleasure in different ways helps create a strong bond that lasts beyond the bedroom. There’s something special about making your partner feel good without any expectations. It’s a great way to stay emotionally and physically connected.
While I’m open to exploring new things with my partner, I’m not personally into the idea of watching my partner with someone else, or having sex with others outside the relationship. I think it can work for some people, but for me, the connection with my partner is more important than seeking outside experiences. Trust is everything, and I’d rather focus on growing our relationship together, rather than inviting complications or jealousy.
Ultimately, I think the key is always being honest and communicative. As long as we’re both open about what we want, willing to try new things, and respect each other’s boundaries, our sex life will stay exciting. It’s not about seeking excitement elsewhere—it’s about nurturing what we have and keeping the passion alive between us.
RE: What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship. - deigo123 - 12-28-2024
I think that keeping sex alive in a relationship requires a mix of effort, communication, and willingness to try new things. One thing that has really worked for me is exploring fantasies with my partner. Sexual role play is definitely something we’ve experimented with, and I think it’s a fun way to break out of the usual routine. It can be anything from switching up who takes the lead to acting out scenarios that appeal to both of us. It’s a safe way to try something different while keeping the trust and connection intact.
Oral sex is also a huge part of keeping things exciting. I think it’s an underrated way to connect with your partner. Sometimes, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that sex always needs to be penetrative or performative, but oral sex is all about giving and receiving pleasure in a relaxed, intimate way. It doesn’t always have to end in orgasm, but the act itself is a great way to stay physically and emotionally connected, especially when life gets in the way of having regular sex.
I’m not particularly interested in exploring sex with others, though. Watching my partner with someone else or bringing someone else into the relationship just isn’t something I’m comfortable with. I think it’s important to recognize your own boundaries and respect them. As much as other people might enjoy that kind of dynamic, for me, it’s about building a connection with my partner without involving anyone else.