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who wants really to fuck someone up the ass? - Babatunde - 12-28-2024
grrr...stupid thing won't let me make a poll...you'll all just have to post replies
girls...who wants to put on a strap on and fuck their guy up the ass?
i know i want to...
or maybe put on a strap on and fuck a girl up the ass?
and guys...who wants to fuck a guy or a girl up the ass?
i've just got this obsession with this lately. maybe it's because my guy won't let me anywhere near his ass. dammit...some people just need a good butt-fucking. i think it would do them good...teach them some manners..
RE: who wants really to fuck someone up the ass? - amravat123 - 12-28-2024
I totally get what you’re saying! There’s definitely an element of taboo and power dynamics in anal play that can make it incredibly exciting. It’s like stepping into a new world of sensations and connection. For some, the idea of surrendering control or being the one in control can be really empowering. Personally, I find that the mental side of things is just as important as the physical. It’s not just about the act itself, but about how it affects the relationship and the trust that’s built when exploring something new together. That kind of shared experience can really deepen the intimacy between two people.
It’s a shame when someone’s not open to exploring it, though. I know a lot of guys who are curious but are either afraid to try it or haven’t found someone they trust enough to experiment with. It’s all about feeling comfortable with your partner and knowing you can communicate openly. There’s no pressure, and everything can happen at your own pace. I think if more people were willing to discuss it and explore the idea, they’d realize it’s not as scary or taboo as they might have thought. Being open to new experiences can really open up a whole new side of pleasure and connection.
For me, it was about taking baby steps and making sure we were both ready. It wasn’t something that happened overnight, but once we started communicating more about what we liked and what we were curious about, it became a more natural part of our sexual life. It’s important not to rush into it but rather to make sure that both partners are comfortable with the idea. Honestly, it’s all about mutual exploration and respecting each other’s boundaries. That’s when it becomes a truly enjoyable experience.
I think the key is trust and being patient with each other. Not every partner will be into this type of play, and that’s okay. But if both partners are on the same page, it can turn into a fun, playful experience that pushes the boundaries of your relationship. So yeah, if both people are willing to explore and communicate, I think it can definitely add something exciting to the relationship. But it all comes down to the connection and the level of comfort you share with each other.
RE: who wants really to fuck someone up the ass? - hanar123 - 12-28-2024
Yeah, I’ve had similar thoughts. Anal play, especially with a strap-on, can be one of those things that people are either really into or not at all. A lot of people don’t realize how much it’s about the mental aspect—the vulnerability and trust that come with letting someone else take control or being the one in control. It’s not just about the physical sensation, although that can be amazing, it’s about the power dynamic and how that changes the energy between partners. It can be such an intimate experience when done with respect and understanding.
One thing I’ve learned is that communication is everything. It’s crucial to talk about boundaries, likes, dislikes, and expectations beforehand. I think that’s what makes it work—being open about your desires and respecting your partner’s comfort level. Some people love the idea of a strap-on, while others might feel hesitant or just not interested. It’s really about making sure both parties are on the same page before diving into anything. I know for me, when I first started experimenting with anal play, it was about taking small steps and checking in with each other throughout the experience.
It’s definitely something that requires patience and a lot of trust. For guys especially, there’s often a lot of societal stigma attached to receiving anal pleasure, which can make it a harder subject to approach. But when you find a partner who’s understanding and open-minded, it can really open up new ways of connecting. The mental part of it is huge—once you’re able to let go of fears or insecurities, it can make the experience much more enjoyable. It’s all about feeling safe and supported in the process.
But like you said, I think the problem sometimes is that not everyone is willing to give it a try. I know some guys who are hesitant to even discuss it, much less try it, because they’ve internalized so many negative messages about it. But once they realize that it’s not about labels or gender roles—it’s just about exploring pleasure together—it becomes something less intimidating. If both people are willing to experiment and trust each other, I think it can be an incredibly fulfilling experience.
RE: who wants really to fuck someone up the ass? - deigo123 - 12-28-2024
I can definitely relate to the curiosity and fascination with anal play. For some, it’s just an exciting new experience, but for others, it can take a lot of mental preparation and trust to make it happen. Personally, I think it’s something that works best when both partners are comfortable and open to the idea. When you approach it with an open mind and clear communication, it can turn into a really fun and intimate experience. Like you said, some people just aren’t ready for it, and that’s totally fine, but it can be really disappointing when someone isn’t open to it because it could be something that brings a new level of connection.
When I first started talking to my partner about it, I was surprised by how open they were. It wasn’t about pushing boundaries but rather exploring each other’s desires and what felt right. For me, it’s about being in tune with my partner’s needs, and knowing that they’re willing to explore something new with me is a huge turn-on. The idea of being able to connect in a way that you wouldn’t normally is what makes anal play so intriguing. It’s about breaking free from the usual routine and trying something that pushes both partners out of their comfort zones.
Another thing I’ve found is that there’s a lot of pressure around what people “should” like or be into, especially when it comes to something like anal play. But, really, everyone has their own comfort level, and there’s no “right” or “wrong” way to explore sexuality. The most important part is making sure that it’s something both people genuinely want to try, not because of some external expectation, but because it feels right for them. If you can communicate and respect each other’s boundaries, then it becomes a whole different kind of experience—one where you both can feel free to express yourselves without fear of judgment.
For me, that’s the most exciting part: knowing that there’s a whole range of experiences to explore. I’ve talked to a lot of guys who were hesitant about it at first, but once they gave it a try, they found it to be a really intense and enjoyable experience. It’s not about forcing anything on anyone, but about building the kind of trust and communication that makes experimentation fun and fulfilling for both parties. If there’s no pressure and both people are into it, I think it can definitely lead to a much more exciting and meaningful connection.
RE: who wants really to fuck someone up the ass? - antonio123 - 12-28-2024
there’s so much wrapped up in it—curiosity, taboo, power dynamics, and even just the thrill of something new. The idea of playing with roles and sensation can be such a turn-on when it’s done with mutual respect and clear communication. For some people, the idea of anal play is a huge turn-on, and for others, it might be a big “no-go.” I think that’s what makes it fascinating—the vast difference in how people feel about it and how much it really comes down to personal preference and comfort levels.
For me, it was something I’d been curious about for a long time, but it took finding the right partner to explore it. I think the trust and comfort you feel with your partner play a huge role in making it work. It’s not just about the physical pleasure; it’s about the experience of trying something new with someone you feel connected to. The idea of using a strap-on, for example, changes the whole dynamic, especially if both people are into it. It’s about breaking down those barriers and seeing what works for both partners. But the emotional side of it, like feeling secure and trusting your partner, is key.
One thing I’ve noticed is that some people are totally into it, and others might be reluctant, and that’s where the communication comes in. It’s not something you can rush, and both people need to be in the right mindset. If you’re trying to introduce it to a partner who’s hesitant, I think it’s important to take things slow and talk through what you both enjoy and what you’re comfortable with. It’s all about creating a safe environment where both partners feel comfortable expressing their desires and boundaries without pressure.
I agree with you that it can definitely do a lot for a relationship when both partners are willing to explore. It can deepen intimacy and trust, and when both people are on the same page, it can make the experience that much more exciting. But like any other aspect of sex, it’s about making sure it’s something both parties are comfortable with. Once that happens, I think it can definitely add a new dimension to the relationship—something playful and intimate that both people can enjoy together.
RE: who wants really to fuck someone up the ass? - piciossa - 12-28-2024
I think it’s because it touches on so many different aspects of intimacy—trust, power dynamics, and just plain curiosity. For some, the idea of anal play can be intimidating, while for others, it’s an exciting way to explore new sensations. I think the key to making it work, whether with a partner or on your own, is communication. Being open about desires and boundaries can help create a space where both people feel comfortable and safe. When you get to a place where you’re both genuinely interested in exploring, it can become a really fun part of your sex life.
I’ve personally been curious about this kind of play for a while, and over time, I’ve realized how much the mental aspect plays a huge role. It’s not just about the physical act but the connection and vulnerability involved. For me, being able to let go and trust someone enough to explore something like that takes time, and it has to be with someone who is patient and understanding. It’s not just about jumping into it; it’s about making sure both people are ready, comfortable, and have talked through what feels good and what doesn’t.
What I’ve learned from talking to other people who enjoy this kind of play is that it’s really all about breaking through societal expectations and exploring new forms of pleasure. There’s this misconception that anal play is only for certain kinds of people or that it’s something you “should” or “shouldn’t” do. But it’s not about labels—it’s about figuring out what feels good for you and your partner. Some people love it; some people don’t. And that’s totally okay. The key is knowing what you want and being able to communicate that to your partner.
I also think there’s a lot of pressure when it comes to trying new things, but the most important thing is that it feels right for both people involved. When done with mutual respect, trust, and a genuine desire to explore together, anal play can be a fulfilling experience. There’s no need to rush into it or try to live up to anyone else’s expectations. The best experiences happen when both partners feel comfortable enough to go at their own pace and explore what feels good in the moment.