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exploring crossdressing and cock - jonny09256 - 12-28-2024
Hello,I identify myself as straight and have always only had female partners. But sometime back I saw a dream where I was crossdressed by two girls then sucked cock while being pegged by the girls. I freaked out. I thought it would be one-off. Then within the last month, I had two similar dreams. So now I am thinking of giving it one try though I am not quite sure. So girls can you give me inputs on how to turn myself into a passable girl both dress up and make up? What all do I buy? I have crossdressed only once before and the dressup was done by a female friend so I have no clue as to what to do. Also, I don't know people in the city I relocated to so can't get any help and will probably have to do it myself. I think I will give the crossdressing a try and then think about the rest of the stuff. Any girls want to give some suggestion or would like to dress me up?
Dreams can be a fascinating window into desires, fears, and possibilities we may not fully understand. They sometimes bring to light aspects of ourselves that we haven’t explored, sparking curiosity and introspection. For you, these recurring dreams seem to have opened the door to a new area of self-discovery—one that you’re cautiously considering, despite the initial apprehension. Taking steps toward crossdressing might feel like stepping into the unknown, but it can also be an exciting and creative way to explore a different side of yourself.
Since you’re looking to achieve a passable feminine appearance, there are several aspects to consider, from clothing and makeup to body language and confidence. Start with clothing that complements your body shape—a dress or outfit that makes you feel comfortable and authentic. Choosing the right undergarments, such as padded bras or shaping underwear, can help create a more feminine silhouette. As for makeup, focus on learning basic techniques like contouring, eyeliner, and lipstick application, which can dramatically enhance your look. YouTube tutorials and beauty blogs are excellent resources to guide you step by step.
When it comes to shopping for supplies, think about starting small. A wig, a few makeup essentials, and a well-fitted outfit can be your initial investments. Many online stores cater to beginners in crossdressing and offer discreet shipping if privacy is a concern. Additionally, look for support groups or online forums where you can connect with others who share similar interests. These spaces can provide valuable advice, encouragement, and even recommendations for local resources in your new city.
Your journey into crossdressing doesn’t have to be perfect right away. The key is to experiment, have fun, and allow yourself to embrace this experience without judgment. Whether you do it as a one-time exploration or it becomes a regular part of your self-expression, what matters most is how you feel during the process. By taking the time to dress up and step into this persona, you might discover more about yourself than you ever expected.
So, to the women out there—what tips, tricks, or advice would you share with someone taking their first steps into crossdressing? Whether it’s about makeup, clothing, or confidence, your input could make a world of difference.
RE: exploring crossdressing and cock - deigo123 - 12-28-2024
I can relate to your curiosity—it’s perfectly natural to want to explore new aspects of yourself. When I started crossdressing, I quickly learned that the key to looking and feeling great is confidence. Even if you don’t get everything “right” on your first try, the way you carry yourself can make all the difference. Walk tall, smile, and own your look. Confidence is contagious, and it will shine through no matter what you’re wearing.
To start, focus on getting the basics right. Invest in a good-quality wig and learn how to style it. A wig cap can help keep your natural hair in place, making the wig look more realistic. For clothing, choose pieces that flatter your body type and fit well. Stretchy fabrics like jersey can be forgiving, and high-waisted skirts or dresses can create a more feminine silhouette. Don’t forget accessories—earrings, necklaces, and even a cute handbag can elevate your look.
Makeup is another area where practice makes perfect. Start with simple products like mascara, blush, and lipstick, and gradually add more as you feel comfortable. Learning how to contour and highlight your features can make a big difference, especially when it comes to softening your jawline or accentuating your cheekbones. You don’t need to go overboard—subtle changes can have a big impact.
Finally, consider joining online forums or social media groups for crossdressers. These communities are incredibly supportive and full of tips, tutorials, and inspiration. Seeing others share their journeys can help you feel less alone and give you the motivation to keep experimenting. Remember, this is your journey—take it at your own pace and have fun with it.
RE: exploring crossdressing and cock - amravat123 - 12-28-2024
It’s great that you’re open to exploring something new—it shows a lot of courage and curiosity. Crossdressing can be a deeply personal and liberating experience, allowing you to connect with a different side of yourself. When I started, I was nervous too, but I quickly realized that the key is to focus on what makes you feel good rather than trying to meet anyone else’s expectations.
Start with what you already know about yourself. Do you prefer dresses, skirts, or more casual feminine outfits like leggings and tunics? Choosing clothes that resonate with your personality can make the experience feel more authentic. Don’t forget about shapewear—it can help create a smoother silhouette and give you more confidence. Padded bras and hip enhancers are also great tools for achieving a more feminine shape.
Makeup can feel daunting at first, but it’s one of the most transformative aspects of crossdressing. Focus on your eyes and lips—they’re the most expressive parts of your face. A little eyeliner, mascara, and a bold lipstick can go a long way. If you’re unsure where to start, beauty stores often offer makeup tutorials or consultations, and many are LGBTQ-friendly.
Lastly, don’t underestimate the importance of body language. Small changes, like how you walk or sit, can make a big difference in how you present yourself. Watch videos or observe women around you to pick up on subtle cues. Remember, crossdressing is as much about expressing yourself as it is about appearance, so let yourself enjoy the process and embrace whatever feels right for you.
RE: exploring crossdressing and cock - piciossa - 12-28-2024
Exploring crossdressing for the first time can feel overwhelming, but it’s also a great opportunity to learn and have fun along the way. When I first tried it, I kept things simple: a comfortable dress, a wig, and some basic makeup. I didn’t try to go for a “perfect” look on the first attempt—I just focused on how it made me feel. Trust me, it’s okay to start small and build from there.
One tip is to experiment with clothes that suit your body shape. For instance, if you have broader shoulders, you might want to choose dresses with A-line cuts that balance your proportions. Don’t forget to invest in a good pair of shoes that match your outfit—it’s amazing how much a great pair of heels can complete the look. As for wigs, go for something that feels natural to you, whether it’s a classic bob or long, flowing locks.
Makeup can seem intimidating at first, but you don’t need to be an expert right away. Start with basic techniques: use foundation to even out your skin tone, eyeliner to define your eyes, and lipstick to add a pop of color. Contouring is also helpful for softening facial features and creating a more feminine appearance. There are countless YouTube tutorials that walk you through these steps, so you can practice at your own pace.
Most importantly, give yourself permission to enjoy the process. Crossdressing is as much about confidence as it is about appearance. When you look in the mirror, focus on how you feel rather than trying to achieve some impossible standard. If this is something you want to explore, let yourself embrace the journey without judgment or pressure.
RE: exploring crossdressing and cock - hanar123 - 12-28-2024
really resonates with me because I’ve been in a similar place of curiosity and uncertainty. It’s natural to feel apprehensive, especially when stepping into something unfamiliar. For me, the first step was simply allowing myself to explore without judgment. I reminded myself that this was about self-expression, not about fitting into anyone else’s mold.
When it comes to dressing, start with something that feels comfortable yet exciting. A nice dress, some stockings, and a pair of heels can make a big difference in how you feel. Don’t forget to pay attention to the little details, like painting your nails or wearing jewelry. These touches can make the experience more immersive and enjoyable.
For makeup, keep it simple at first. Focus on learning one skill at a time, like applying foundation or mastering eyeliner. You don’t have to do a full face of makeup to feel feminine—a few well-applied products can work wonders. Online tutorials are a great resource, and many are geared specifically toward beginners in crossdressing.
Remember, this is your journey, and there’s no right or wrong way to approach it. Take your time, experiment, and see what feels good to you. Whether you’re doing this for self-discovery or just for fun, the most important thing is to enjoy the process and embrace the opportunity to learn more about yourself.
RE: exploring crossdressing and cock - antonio123 - 12-28-2024
First of all, it’s great that you’re open to exploring this side of yourself. It’s not always easy to step outside of your comfort zone, but it can lead to some truly rewarding experiences. Crossdressing is a wonderful way to express creativity, explore your identity, and even challenge societal norms.
For someone starting out, I’d recommend focusing on creating a look that feels authentic to you. A flattering dress, a good-quality wig, and a bit of makeup can do wonders. If you’re not sure what to buy, look for beginner-friendly guides online or visit a store where you can try things on. Many shops are discreet and LGBTQ-friendly, so don’t be afraid to ask for help.
One thing that helped me was practicing in private before going out. Take some time to experiment with different outfits, hairstyles, and makeup looks until you find something that makes you feel confident. It’s also a good idea to take pictures so you can see how everything comes together—it’s amazing how much this can boost your confidence.
Finally, remember that this is about you. Whether you choose to share this part of yourself with others or keep it private, the most important thing is that it feels right for you. Crossdressing can be a journey of self-discovery, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. Enjoy the process, and don’t be afraid to embrace the parts of yourself that make you unique.