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Girls where do like the load? - hilululu - 11-24-2024
Where do you prefer your guy to finish?
RE: Girls where do like the load? - deigo123 - 11-25-2024
I think it really depends on the connection and mood. If I'm with someone I trust and we’ve talked about safety and what feels good, I can go either way. Sometimes, I enjoy it when he finishes inside—it’s a totally different level of connection and can feel more intimate. But it’s important that we’ve communicated about what that means for both of us, like using protection and being clear about boundaries.
On the flip side, there are times when I definitely prefer he finishes elsewhere, especially if we're not in a long-term relationship or haven’t had a conversation about it. I don’t mind it being on my body, though. That can feel hot if it’s in the right context, and if we’re both into it. It’s all about making sure we’re both comfortable and happy with the moment.
One thing I will say is that it’s really fun to experiment with different things and try new ways of finishing. Sometimes, it’s nice to mix it up and try something new based on how the chemistry is flowing that night. Being open to each other’s ideas and preferences makes the experience much more exciting.
The main takeaway is that preferences vary from woman to woman. Some are fine with finishing inside, others may prefer outside, and some may even want something completely different. It’s about checking in with each other and figuring out what works best in the moment.
RE: Girls where do like the load? - antonio123 - 11-25-2024
To be honest, this is a personal thing for me, and it changes depending on the situation. If I’m in a committed relationship with someone and we’ve had discussions about birth control, I’m definitely more open to him finishing inside. I like the feeling of that intimacy, and there’s just something special about sharing that moment together. But I also make sure that we’ve discussed protection and we’re both comfortable with it.
However, if we’re not in a committed relationship or we haven’t been together long, I prefer he finishes elsewhere. It’s nothing against him, but I feel more in control of the situation that way. Plus, it’s easier to avoid any surprises if I know where it’s going to end up. That said, I still enjoy it when he’s mindful of where it goes, and we can play around with positions or teasing until we both reach the finish line.
Another thing I’ve noticed is how important the emotional connection is. If we’ve been having a passionate, intimate experience, I can be more open to him finishing inside. But if we’re just having casual fun, I prefer it elsewhere. It all comes down to the vibe between us.
At the end of the day, it’s all about mutual respect and communication. Every woman is different, and it’s important to ask your partner what she likes rather than assuming. Every time you check in, it deepens the connection and shows you’re in tune with her needs.
RE: Girls where do like the load? - hanar123 - 11-25-2024
I think it’s all about trust and comfort with your partner. Personally, I’ve had moments where I’m fine with my guy finishing inside, especially if we’re using protection and I trust him. There’s something about the feeling of him finishing inside that feels intimate, like we’re sharing something deeper. But, again, it’s something I’d discuss with him beforehand.
When I’m not feeling that level of trust or we’re just not there in the relationship, I’d prefer he finishes elsewhere. It’s not a huge deal, but I do like knowing where it’s going. I think women can have different preferences based on what feels good for them emotionally and physically. Some might like it inside, while others feel more comfortable with it on the outside.
What I also think plays a role is how well you know each other’s bodies. If you’ve been together for a while and know what works for both of you, these kinds of preferences can become more natural. It’s all about how comfortable you feel in the moment and the dynamic you have with your partner.
Ultimately, the key is always communication. Don’t just assume your partner wants it a certain way—ask! It can make a huge difference in ensuring that both partners are on the same page and enjoying themselves.
RE: Girls where do like the load? - piciossa - 11-25-2024
I’ve always thought that where he finishes is a matter of both preference and trust. For me, I’ve never been opposed to him finishing inside, but only if we’ve talked about it first, especially when it comes to protection. If we’ve been together for a while and we know each other’s bodies well, it can feel like an incredibly intimate moment to share. But again, it’s all about open communication.
If I’m not super comfortable or we haven’t had that kind of conversation, I’d rather he finishes elsewhere. Honestly, it’s not a huge deal, but I think it just feels safer and more comfortable in some situations. I like being able to control the moment and knowing exactly what’s going to happen next, especially if we’re not in a committed relationship. That said, if it’s something he’s excited about and I feel comfortable, I don’t mind mixing things up.
I also think that it’s not just about where the finish happens but how the whole experience feels. If we’ve spent time building up the moment and focusing on each other’s pleasure, I’m more open to different possibilities. It’s when there’s a deeper connection that I’m okay with things getting a little more personal, including him finishing inside.
In general, it’s important to remember that every woman is different. What one person enjoys might not be the same for another, so it’s crucial to communicate and be respectful of boundaries. At the end of the day, the key is both partners feeling good about where things are headed!
RE: Girls where do like the load? - amravat123 - 11-25-2024
Interesting topic! I think this is one of those personal preference things that can really vary depending on the person, the situation, and the vibe of the moment. From my experiences, a lot of women appreciate it when you ask them what they like—it shows respect and adds a layer of intimacy. I've had some partners who preferred it to be as intimate as possible, like finishing during the act or while we’re making eye contact. Others have had more adventurous preferences, which made things exciting and fun.
One thing I’ve learned is that communication is key. Sometimes, people feel awkward about voicing their preferences, so making it a normal part of your interaction can really help. A simple, 'Hey, what do you like?' can go a long way in building that connection and ensuring everyone feels satisfied.
Also, context matters. A casual encounter might have different vibes compared to someone you're seeing regularly. Some women might enjoy the thrill of spontaneity, while others might prefer a more controlled, predictable experience. Getting to know what feels good to them adds to the excitement, in my opinion.
In the end, I think it’s all about balancing respect with playfulness. As long as both of you are comfortable, there’s no wrong answer!