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Multiple orgasms? What are your experiences - daniel74 - 11-23-2024
I am thankful that I am able to satisfy my partner but it does get exhausting! I have counted 4 orgasms before in one session. There are times when I just gotta tell her that I have to pull out and cum before my erection goes numb. We have since incorporated a vibrator that she will hold on her clit during sex. I noticed that since we have been doing this her sex drive went down significantly. Is it because she is more satisfied? What are your experiences? Curious to know what it feels like to be a woman and have back to back orgasms. Do you want to keep orgasming until you have a "satisfying" one?
Both my fwb and fb are able to have multiple orgasms vaginally and orally. Our sessions are sometimes quickies or as we say marathons which can last hours. My fwb will cum multiple times and then I will enter her and after she has cum a few times she will beg me to cum because she is just about tapped out. I then shoot my load in her. The key for me when I am with her is to distract my mind so that I can stay hard for very long periods. For my fb she is similar but likes different positions after her oral orgasms. Sometimes while standing in which case after her orgasm I will cum. If she is riding me she can go on for quite sometime with multiple cums after which she’ll tell me and then I’ll blast a load. Everyone is different and every session
RE: Multiple orgasms? What are your experiences - piciossa - 11-25-2024
I think the ability to experience multiple orgasms is fascinating and something I’ve always been curious about. As a single guy, I’ve noticed that different partners have different thresholds and preferences. One of my previous FWB partners could have multiple orgasms during a session, and it was thrilling but also required a lot of stamina on my part. I found that being patient and attentive to her body cues was key. For her, foreplay played a huge role in building up to that state.
We experimented with various toys and techniques, and it was eye-opening for me. For example, she loved when I alternated between oral and penetration, which seemed to help her achieve those back-to-back climaxes. One thing I learned is that communication is crucial. She would guide me through what felt best at the moment, which helped me understand her better.
That said, I also understand the exhaustion part you mentioned. It can get intense, especially if you’re not pacing yourself. I think it’s important to know when to take breaks or slow down to make it enjoyable for both partners. There’s a fine balance between pushing limits and maintaining the fun and connection.
As for the vibrator lowering her sex drive, that’s an interesting observation. It could be that she feels more satisfied after each session and doesn’t feel the need for frequent sex. Or it might be a mental shift where she’s associating orgasms with a quicker, less effort-intensive method. Either way, it’s worth having a conversation about her preferences and what keeps the spark alive.
RE: Multiple orgasms? What are your experiences - amravat123 - 11-25-2024
I’ve had a similar experience with a partner who could have multiple orgasms, and honestly, it’s both amazing and challenging. One thing I noticed is that it’s not just about the physical act but also the emotional connection and how comfortable she feels during the session. When she’s relaxed and in the mood, the orgasms come naturally, and she enjoys herself much more.
In one relationship, we explored edging, where we’d build up the tension slowly before letting her climax. It became a fun way to extend our sessions and maximize her pleasure. She told me that the sensation of multiple orgasms was like waves, each one building on the last until she reached a point where she felt completely satisfied. For me, it was all about staying focused and being in sync with her needs.
I also think it’s worth noting that everyone is different. Some women might enjoy consecutive orgasms, while others might find them overstimulating after a certain point. One partner of mine would tap out after three or four and just want to cuddle, while another could go for what felt like forever.
Regarding the vibrator, I’ve heard mixed opinions. Some women say it enhances their satisfaction and adds variety, while others feel like it makes them less interested in traditional sex. It might be worth experimenting with when and how you use it during your sessions to keep things fresh and exciting.
RE: Multiple orgasms? What are your experiences - antonio123 - 11-25-2024
This is such an interesting topic! I’ve dated a woman who could have multiple orgasms, and it was an incredible experience. It definitely added a new dimension to our intimacy, but it also came with its own set of challenges. For her, it wasn’t just about physical stimulation; she needed a lot of mental engagement as well. Setting the mood with music, lighting, and even certain scents played a role in getting her into that headspace.
One thing I learned is that technique matters a lot. She preferred slower, deliberate movements to start and then gradually building up intensity. I also noticed that switching up positions or using my hands and mouth in between helped her sustain the momentum. It was almost like a dance, where you had to be in tune with her rhythm.
That said, not every session was a marathon. There were times when she’d have one or two orgasms and feel content, and other times when she wanted to push her limits. I think the key is being adaptable and responsive to her needs in the moment. It’s not about chasing a number but creating an experience that leaves both partners satisfied.
As for the vibrator thing, I’ve used it with a couple of partners, and it can definitely be a game-changer. However, I’ve also noticed that if it becomes the default, it can shift the dynamic of intimacy. Maybe mix it up—use it occasionally but not every time, and see how that affects her sex drive.
RE: Multiple orgasms? What are your experiences - hanar123 - 11-25-2024
I’ve been in similar situations, and I agree—it can be exhausting but also incredibly rewarding. I had a partner who could have multiple orgasms, and it was like unlocking a new level of intimacy. The first few times, I honestly didn’t know what I was doing and just stumbled my way through, but eventually, I learned to pace myself and focus on her pleasure.
For her, communication was everything. She wasn’t shy about telling me what worked and what didn’t, which made the experience better for both of us. She loved a mix of clitoral and vaginal stimulation, but what really surprised me was how much she enjoyed the emotional connection during those moments. It wasn’t just about physical pleasure; it was about feeling completely seen and understood.
There were times when she’d ask for breaks in between, which gave me a chance to recover too. I’d use that time to kiss her, caress her, or just talk to her, keeping the intimacy alive without the pressure of constant performance. I think those moments made the sessions even more special.
As for the vibrator, I think it’s a great tool, but it can also become a crutch if you rely on it too much. Maybe try incorporating it in a way that complements your connection rather than replacing it. For example, use it during foreplay or to enhance a specific position, but don’t make it the main focus.
RE: Multiple orgasms? What are your experiences - deigo123 - 11-25-2024
Wow, this brings back memories! I once dated a woman who described her orgasms as “layers of pleasure,” and it was fascinating to witness. She said the first few were like warm-ups, and then the later ones felt deeper and more intense. As her partner, it was exciting but also a bit intimidating at first—I didn’t want to disappoint her or wear myself out too quickly.
We found a rhythm that worked for us by alternating between slow and fast-paced moments. She loved it when I took charge but also appreciated when I paused to let her guide me. It wasn’t just about physical stimulation but also the build-up—foreplay, teasing, and even just whispering in her ear.
I think it’s important to know your own limits too. There were times when I had to pull back and take a breather to keep going strong. In those moments, we’d switch roles, and she’d take over for a bit, which kept things exciting and balanced.
As for the vibrator reducing her sex drive, I wonder if it’s more about her feeling truly fulfilled after each session. Maybe it’s a sign that she’s reaching a level of satisfaction that makes her feel content. Either way, it’s worth talking about and experimenting with different approaches to keep things fresh and exciting for both of you.