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Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Suck You Off? - johnson13 - 11-17-2024
I never really understood somone who says they are "bi-sexual." If you are a woman and will have sex with a woman, you are a lesbian or homosexual. If you are a man and will perform sex acts with a man, you are gay or homosexual. Why would your feelings hurt if you are a man allowing men to perform sex acts on you and I call you gay? Wouldn't you be proud of it, even if my opinion of it was quite low? So I guess if your feelings are hurt because I call you "gay", then you might have a problem somewhere.
Just my personal opinion, I wouldn't let a man suck on my dick if he held a gun to my head. As far as I'm concerned he could just pull the trigger. But that's just my opinion, which I find impossible to force upon other people.
One thing to keep in mind, this poll is only polling people who have found HipForums and read it, so the result is likely skewed.
Quite simple - here's no such thing as Gay or Straight, just varying degrees of Bi. For instance, I rate myself as about 75% Straight, and although I will happily enjoy the physical stimulations provided by sex with another man, I would still prefer it with a woman. Furthermore, although I may enjoy physical sex with men or women, I could only get romantically involved with a woman. I even find kissing a man I'm having sex with a no-no, yet with a woman it's all part & parcel of the sexual act.
Even someone who may class themselves as being Gay does not necessarily fit the stereotype of an effeminate extrovert, in the same way as someone who classes themselves as being Straight doesn't necessarily fit the butch, macho stereotype.
Nobody, be they male or female, has 100% male or female hormones.
It's all a matter of shades of grey.
RE: Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Suck You Off? - amravat123 - 11-18-2024
This is a fascinating question because it challenges the labels we often use to define sexuality. Personally, I consider myself straight, but I also recognize that sexuality is a spectrum, not a rigid box. Would I let a guy suck me off? Probably not, because I don’t find men sexually attractive. But I understand why some straight-identifying guys might be open to the idea, especially if they’re focused solely on the physical sensation rather than the gender of the person providing it.
It’s important to separate physical pleasure from emotional and romantic attraction. Some guys might feel comfortable receiving oral from another man purely because it’s a different experience or out of curiosity. That doesn’t necessarily mean they’re gay or even bi—it might just be a one-time thing or an exploration of their boundaries.
I think the stigma around masculinity and sexuality plays a big role in this discussion. Straight men are often taught that any interaction with another guy automatically defines them as gay. But in reality, sexuality is far more nuanced. If two consenting adults are exploring their desires, why should labels even matter?
For me, it’s about understanding and respecting people’s choices. While it’s not something I would personally engage in, I don’t see why it should be judged or ridiculed. Life is too short to worry about how others label your experiences—if it’s consensual and makes you happy, that’s what counts.
RE: Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Suck You Off? - piciossa - 11-18-2024
This topic hits on something a lot of people feel strongly about—labels and how they define us. For me, being straight is about more than just physical attraction; it’s tied to who I feel emotionally and romantically connected to. That said, I can see why some straight guys might be open to letting a guy suck them off. If it’s about the sensation and not the person, does it really change their identity?
I think there’s a cultural fear among men of being labeled as gay for even considering something like this. But the truth is, sexuality isn’t black and white. A straight guy might experiment or even enjoy the experience without it fundamentally altering how he sees himself. It’s about intention and context more than anything else.
Personally, I wouldn’t be comfortable with it because I associate my sexual experiences with women. But I also don’t see why it should bother anyone if others think differently. We all have our own boundaries, and what works for one person might not work for another.
In the end, I think it comes down to how secure you are in your identity. If a guy feels confident in who he is, then exploring or trying something different won’t shake that. The labels we use are just words; they don’t define the complexity of our experiences.
RE: Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Suck You Off? - hanar123 - 11-18-2024
To me, this question is really about societal expectations versus personal preferences. As a straight guy, I wouldn’t be interested in letting another man go down on me, but I can understand why others might feel differently. The way I see it, pleasure and identity don’t always have to be tied together. Some people separate the act from the context, and that’s okay.
The stigma surrounding male sexuality is strong, though. Society tends to view men’s sexual choices as very binary: you’re either straight or gay, and there’s no room for nuance. But sexuality is complex. Someone could enjoy a specific physical act without it changing how they identify or who they’re attracted to overall.
For those who are open to the idea, it’s probably about exploring what feels good without overthinking it. They might not be attracted to men at all, but they recognize that another man might know how to perform certain acts better than some women. It’s not about romance; it’s about the experience.
At the end of the day, I think people should do whatever makes them happy. If a straight guy wants to try something like this, that’s his choice. It doesn’t make him any less of a man, nor does it mean he has to adopt a new label. It’s his journey, and only he can define it.
RE: Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Suck You Off? - deigo123 - 11-18-2024
I think this question highlights how rigid people often are about defining sexuality. Personally, I’ve never thought about letting a guy suck me off because I’m just not attracted to men. But I can see why some guys might consider it. If it’s about the physical pleasure and not the emotional or romantic connection, does it really change their sexual identity?
There’s a lot of pressure for men to conform to traditional ideas of masculinity. Even the thought of exploring something outside of heterosexual norms can make people uncomfortable. But if we strip away the societal judgment, it’s really just a personal preference. Some guys might be curious or open-minded, and that’s okay.
I do think the discussion would be different if society were more accepting of sexual fluidity. Straight men might feel less defensive about their choices if there weren’t so much judgment tied to labels. It’s important to remember that what someone does in a specific moment doesn’t define their entire identity.
For me, it’s not something I would ever try, but I respect those who feel differently. As long as everything is consensual and respectful, there’s no right or wrong answer here. It’s about what works for you and your partner.
RE: Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Suck You Off? - antonio123 - 11-18-2024
This is such an interesting topic because it forces you to think about what being "straight" really means. For me, being straight isn’t just about what I do or don’t do; it’s about who I’m attracted to overall. That’s why I wouldn’t be interested in letting a guy suck me off—I simply don’t find men attractive.
That said, I don’t think it’s fair to judge others for their choices. Some straight guys might view it as purely a physical act, detached from any deeper meaning. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re gay or even bi—it might just be a one-time experience or something they were curious about.
What I find interesting is how much pressure there is for men to fit into a specific mold. Women can experiment and still be considered straight, but when men do, they’re immediately labeled. It’s a double standard that keeps a lot of guys from exploring their desires or even talking openly about them.
At the end of the day, labels are just tools we use to make sense of things. They don’t always capture the full picture of who we are or what we feel. If a straight guy wants to try something like this, it doesn’t make him any less straight—it just means he’s comfortable exploring what feels good.