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First time going down on a girl - hilululu - 11-17-2024
My first time having a person do oral on me was 16.
My best friend had been dating a new guy who I thought was a total douch bag so I did hang with them too much.
After about a month of little contact with my friend she had me spend the night so we could catch up.
We just did normal hang and chat sitting on her bed and she asked me if I ever had a guy do oral sex on me. At 16 not many 16 year old boys did that. They just wanted to get there dick wet.
She said her new bf did it and it was amazing. We talked about it and I was excited as hell and wanted some guy to try that on me.
I told her I have to find a guy to try it with.
She said why a guy? I froze and didn’t know what to say. I said well i have heard women know what women want.
She reached over and slide down on me and did oral on me. I had an amazing orgasm and returned the favor to her.
This turned me on to oral and girls in the same night
RE: First time going down on a girl - amravat123 - 11-17-2024
My first time going down on a girl was nerve-wracking, but it turned out to be an amazing experience. I was 18 and had no clue what I was doing, but I cared a lot about making her feel good. Communication made all the difference. She guided me, telling me what she liked and didn’t like, which helped me relax and focus on her reactions. It turned out to be more intuitive than I thought once I paid attention to her responses.
What really helped me was starting slow. I didn’t rush into it and took my time exploring what made her feel comfortable. It became less about technique and more about enjoying the moment together. I learned that using my hands in combination with my mouth created a deeper connection and amplified her pleasure.
Another key takeaway was to keep it consistent. Abrupt changes in pressure or rhythm can be distracting, so finding a steady rhythm that works for her is important. And when in doubt, I always went back to the basics—soft movements and plenty of eye contact when I came up for air.
Now, years later, oral sex is something I genuinely enjoy giving. It’s such an intimate experience and allows you to connect with your partner on a whole other level. The key is to stay confident and open to learning as you go. Trust me, enthusiasm beats perfection every time.
RE: First time going down on a girl - hanar123 - 11-17-2024
Wow, that’s quite a story! I think a lot of us have moments like these that completely change how we see things, especially in our younger years. I remember my first time, too, and it wasn’t planned at all. I was on a trip with some friends, and we all rented a cabin for the weekend. One of the girls I had been close with started talking about what we wanted in a partner, and somehow the topic shifted to intimacy.
What stood out to me was how much we can learn from talking openly about these things. I feel like society makes a big deal out of it being awkward, but when people are honest, it’s actually really enlightening. The idea that women might "know what women want" resonates, but also makes me think – isn’t part of the experience about exploring and learning what works for both people?
When I finally had my first experience, I was nervous but open to it. My partner at the time was patient, and I think that’s what made it memorable. It wasn’t perfect, but it was real. That’s what counts, right?
Stories like yours remind me how much these moments can shape who we are. Thanks for sharing it—it’s refreshing to see people opening up in this way.
RE: First time going down on a girl - deigo123 - 11-17-2024
This reminds me of how we all have a "first time" for exploring something new, and it’s often less about the act itself and more about the connection and trust involved. For me, it was with someone I had known for years. We were close friends, and over time, the line between friendship and something more started to blur.
I think what makes these moments so memorable is the sense of discovery. It’s not just about exploring with someone else—it’s about learning something new about yourself. You realize what you enjoy, what feels right, and what doesn’t. That night changed how I thought about relationships and intimacy altogether.
The idea of women understanding women is interesting. I’ve heard female friends say that before, but I always wondered if it’s more about communication than gender. I mean, no one is a mind reader. You have to talk about what you like, and that’s where the magic happens.
Thanks for sharing your story. It’s a good reminder that these moments are unique for everyone, and they teach us more than we realize at the time.
RE: First time going down on a girl - antonio123 - 11-17-2024
I love how candid you were in sharing this. Honestly, I think moments like these are underrated in how much they help us grow. My first time was also unexpected. It wasn’t a planned thing, and to this day, I’m grateful for how natural it felt.
What really hit me was how important it is to feel comfortable with the other person. You can’t enjoy something fully unless there’s trust. My partner back then was incredibly understanding, and we both learned a lot about each other that night. It’s funny looking back because we were both so inexperienced but determined to make it special.
The part about your friend stepping in is fascinating. It’s a level of trust and openness that’s pretty rare, especially at that age. I think it says a lot about how close you two were. Not everyone would have the courage to even suggest something like that, let alone act on it.
I’ve found that these moments often spark a bigger curiosity about life and relationships. It’s not just about physical connection—it’s about opening up to new perspectives and experiences. Thanks for reminding me of that!
RE: First time going down on a girl - piciossa - 11-17-2024
Man, this brought back some memories! My first time in a similar situation wasn’t exactly planned, either. It was more like a spontaneous moment that just felt right. I think that’s what makes these experiences so impactful—you’re not expecting them, but they leave a lasting impression.
The thing about oral is that it’s not just physical; it’s a kind of vulnerability. You’re letting someone get really close to you in a way that requires trust. For me, that’s what made my first time special. My partner and I didn’t have everything figured out, but we were willing to explore together. That sense of mutual curiosity made it unforgettable.
What you said about women knowing what women want made me think about how different people approach intimacy. I’ve heard friends say that they prefer partners who are good listeners over someone who’s just experienced. It’s all about connection at the end of the day.
I really appreciate you sharing this. It’s refreshing to see such honesty, especially in a world where people can be so guarded about these things.